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Landlord Evicted Tenant Over Noisy Sex Swing

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You think your stomping upstairs neighbor is a problem? Imagine hearing apartment 3A’s squeaky sex swing at all hours of the night. A court in Munich, Germany, sided with a landlady for evicting a man who violated the “quiet clause” in his rental agreement by squeakin’ on an old sex swing after 10 p.m. and before 7 a.m. The chain swing made “sexual, athletic and squeaking noises” deep into the night, according to the New York Daily News. As a noisy woman myself, I feel for this German gent. But since the problem seemed to have been a creaky swing, why not attack that sucker with some WD-40? [New York Daily News] [Image of a woman on a swing via Shutterstock ... yes, I realize this is not what what a sex swing really looks like but it's the best stock image I could find]

“Dating Naked”‘s Jessie Nizewitz Sues Because The Reality Show Aired Her Uncensored Vag

"Dating Naked"'s Jessie Nizewitz Sues Because The Reality Show Aired Her Uncensored Vag

When you agree to go on a show like VH1′s “Dating Naked,” you’re obviously agreeing to be, well, naked on camera. But New York model Jessie Nizewitz, who appeared in the July 31 episode of the show, is suing the cable network to the tune of $10 million for airing footage that she says shows her more naked than she agreed to. Nizewitz said that she was told her “privates” were going to be completely blurred, but as you’ll see in the NSFW version of the photo above, whoever was in charge of censoring naughty bits, well, missed a spot. Like, really missed a spot. In addition to the whole world (well, the percentage of the whole world that actually watches “Dating Naked”) seeing her chocha, Nizewitz says the guy she was dating (who she met clothed and not on the show) is ghosting her, while her grandmother is giving her the cold shoulder. “Obviously, I did not expect the world to see my private parts,” Nizewitz told Variety. Just the blurry ones. [The Superficial; Huffington Post]

Here’s A New Trailer For “Kink,” James Franco’s Documentary About BDSM Porn

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A New "Kink" Trailer

“Kink,” a documentary about the porn web site Kink.com, debuted in January at the Sundance Film Festival. Yesterday, the film, which explores the largest BDSM online porn empire, released a new trailer in anticipation of a limited release. I’ve heard complaints about the film — it’s “boring” (which is unfortunately always something that some kinky folks say in order to be dismissive); it doesn’t address allegations of abuse at Kink.com — but I’ll see it regardless. Christina Voros directed “Kink” and James Franco executive produced, so you better believe I want to know how they handled the material. Also, this probably goes without saying, but the trailer is NSFW! [Queerty; First Showing]

Men, This Is What Goes Through A Woman’s Mind While Giving A Blowjob

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The Blowjob Song

There aren’t enough songs about blowjobs,  that’s what I always say. So, for anyone who has never given a blowjob before — be you a straight male, a gay woman, or a member of the Duggar family — here are silly songstresses Garfunkel and Oates to explain exactly what goes through one’s mind during a beej.  But I’m warning you: the ending is definitely NSF getting in the mood. [YouTube]

I Will Write About The Snake Sex Video, But I Will Not Watch It

I Will Write About The Snake Sex Video, But I Will Not Watch It

My tolerance for things that are scary/gross/weird is pretty high, but when I heard about the snake sex video that has slithered its way into the internet’s fascination today, my reaction was a whole lot of NOPE.

NOPE NOPE NOPE NOPE. NOPE. Keep reading »

On Making The Case For Kink As A Sexual Orientation

Dominant Sex
I just want to be dominated in bed! Read More »
Submissive Sex
Newsflash: feminists are not against submissve sex. Read More »
Kinky Sex Myths
Five myths about kinky sex from "50 Shades Of Grey." Read More »
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Today on Slate.com is an excellent piece about why “kinky” should be considered a sexual orientation. Writer Jillian Keenan posits how we define a person’s sexual orientation should include what kind of energies turn a person on — dominant or submissive, for example — because for people like Keenan and myself, our sexuality is more complicated than just the gender and genitalia of the person to whom we are attracted. Keep reading »

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