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The 7 Best Apps For Spicing Up Your Relationship

Phone apps that will spice up your love life

Sure, you can poke someone on Facebook, but other than that, there’s no room for intimacy by way of your mobile phone, right? Maybe not. Though “smart phone” and “sex life” may seem like polar opposites, your device can actually help heat up your relationship. The key? Knowing which intimacy-enhancing apps are actually worth the download. Read more on Your Tango…

How To Get Your Orgasm Back (And Have It Be Better Than Ever)

t can happen even in the steamiest moment — you’re on the brink of an awesome orgasm … and then nada. Maybe you got distracted by a nagging thought, like stressing out over unanswered work emails, or you were thrown off when your guy suddenly changed positions. Or maybe your climax just kind of petered out, and you’re not completely sure why. Whatever’s going on, there are techniques you can use to get back in the zone. Allow us to talk you through.

Think of Channing Tatum. Letting your mind go to your sexy place, wherever it is (that time you and your guy hooked up on the kitchen table, the hottie with the ridic biceps at the gym who always says hi), will get you on track for a satisfying finish. “When you fantasize, your brain sends arousal signals throughout your body, and extra blood is directed to your genitals,” says Gail Saltz, M.D., author of The Ripple Effect: How Better Sex Can Lead to a Better Life. The less constrained your fantasy, the better: Women who allowed their minds to wander to their own scenario (as opposed to something scripted, like a scene from an X-rated novel) were more likely to show signs of being turned on, such as increased wetness, according to a recent study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine. And, of course, more arousal usually means that the way your guy is touching/licking/whatever you is going to feel that much better. Read more on Your Tango…

How Not To Deal With A Boyfriend That Finds Your Vagina “Repulsive”

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I’ve read a lot of letters asking for advice. Some of them are weird, like the woman who asked Slate’s Dear Prudence if she should date the guy who sniffed her sweaty bicycle seat at the gym. I vote for NO. Some of them are soul-stirring. Check out Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice On Love And Life from Dear Sugar if you haven’t already. I cried my way through it. Sometimes I agree with the advice and sometimes I don’t. That’s to be expected. But I think I stumbled upon what might be the saddest advice exchange ever. A woman whose boyfriend finds her vagina “repulsive” wrote in to the Guardian:

“My boyfriend of three years has never actively looked at my vagina or shown the slightest interest in it other than the usual foreplay. He performs oral sex occasionally but always under the darkness of the duvet and has admitted he doesn’t find vaginas particularly attractive, joking that mine is especially repulsive…”

Three years!? This poor woman. I’m no professional, but I feel like I know exactly what she should do: DUMP HIM RIGHT NOW. I mean, is there any other option? No one deserves to be with someone who finds their genitals repulsive. After the jump, check out the AWFUL advice this woman was given. Keep reading »

5 Ways To Help Him Drive You To Orgasm

Ladies, it’s time to take charge of your orgasm! Stop blaming your partner for not making it happen for you during sex. Think of your body as a high-performance vehicle that you’re placing in the hands of a novice driver—your lover—each time you have sex. He wants you to reach the big O, but he needs some help operating your vehicle. You are responsible for guiding your man to becoming an expert driver. Follow these five steps to reach the climactic finish line:

1. Become your vehicle’s expert mechanic. If you don’t know what stimulates you, how can you expect your partner to figure it out? Do some self-discovery—masturbate. First, don’t forget to lubricate your whole vaginal area; wetter is better. Using your fingers, try different tempos and pressure levels for reaching an orgasm. Play with your nipples and see how that adds to your experience. Read a sexy book and fantasize about anything that gets you revved up. Try a vibrator on your clitoris or inside your vagina. Read more on Your Tango…

How To Prolong Foreplay

Most women want more foreplay before we can enjoy the pleasures of intercourse. Foreplay is essential to build arousal before penetration of any kind, and most of us can’t get enough. Here are five ideas to get more foreplay every time you make love:

1. Foreplay all day. Foreplay can start long before you hit the sheets. Let your erotic tension build all day by allowing yourself to think about sex. Allow your thoughts to wander and daydream vividly about what you want to experience when you get together with your lover. The more detail you bring to your fantasies, the better. Your mind will start to get your body on board and you may find yourself more aroused when you finally see your lover. Read more on Your Tango…

The 6 Weirdest Sex Problems

Having sex in your sleep and being born with two penises are both unusual sexual conditions that might make you chuckle when you hear about them.

Unfortunately, these conditions can be disruptive, alienating, and cause the sufferer both physical and emotional pain.

And, for some of these conditions, there is no easy cure.

Here are 6 unusual and rare sexual conditions that you don’t want to have: Read more on The Stir…

4 Hot Sex Moves Every Man Craves

When it comes to pleasing men in the bedroom with smokin’ hot sex moves, women often mistakenly feel they have to bend themselves into some sort of exotic new sex position (that’s actually why I created the Bad Girl’s Bible). And while variety definitely adds spice to your sex life, a contortionist isn’t always what he wants (and in the extreme, can make for some awkward trips to the emergency room).

Instead, just remaster the hottest of tried and true sex moves that already drive him nuts. And what exactly are these classic moves? I’m glad you asked …

1. The move that only needs your mouth. Ask any guy and he will tell you this: getting a blow job is one of the sexiest things he can receive from his girl. To get you started, here are three things to remember when going down on him. Read more on Your Tango…

The 3 Best Masturbation Techniques For Women

Masturbating should always be a fun and pleasurable experience, ending in a body-shaking orgasm for you. That’s why I want to give you these four incredible masturbation techniques from The Bad Girl’s Bible. Now some of these techniques may be a bit extreme for you, but I really hope that you will at least try them once.

But before you you even try one of these masturbation techniques, you’ll want to set the mood for sensuality by stimulating your senses. Read more on Your Tango…

The 6 Worst Pieces Of Sex Advice On The Internet

Like me, you’ve probably seen sex on screen in a movie from behind the room divider Mom thought didn’t have any cracks in it. Heh heh, Mom. So naive. Being the sexual expert you therefore are, you never need to Google tips on how to be a better lover, but know this! There are numerous websites out there with articles dedicated to making your groin into a combination circus/amusement park/Taco Bell. Is it possible that a hastily made article of numbered points could ever be educational? Who even writes like that? The answer, of course, is I don’t know. This article is more concerned with tips from sites that seem like maybe they were written by people who have never seen good sex through a room divider crack and are therefore unequipped to even hope to tell you how to be a better lover at all. Read more on Cracked…

The Beginner’s Guide To Sexploration

One of the great things about being in a relationship is getting to relax and have more fun in bed. But if you’ve always had sex the same old way (missionary again?) — or you’ve never put your fantasies into words — it can be hard to imagine suddenly discussing your fantasies openly with your partner, no matter how solid your relationship. “Hey, honey, let’s try some role playing. You call me Sookie, I’ll call you Bill, and don’t bite me until I tell you to.” Rolls right off the tongue, doesn’t it?

But think about it: If you can’t express your private fantasies to the one person you’re most intimate with, then who can you share them with? Sexploration — indulging your naughty side by acting your sexual fantasies together — is one the best (and most fun!) ways to bond with your partner. It requires trust and openness, of course — plus a healthy dose of adventure. Read more on Your Tango…

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