It wasn’t meant to go this way.
It was meant to be a fun assignment. A lot of women would dream of being asked to test drive every vibrator on the market and write about their experience for Playboy. And while it wasn’t something my parents were going to be bragging about—or even admitting knowledge of—anytime soon, I loved the idea of covering the sex business from a first-person perspective without having to sell myself or make porn. Almost as an afterthought, it occurred to me that the research might also be informative. Keep reading »
If your sex life is a snooze, your home may be the culprit. We ask a designer, a sex columnist, a feng shui expert and a marital counselor to share a few sexy house tips to get you back in bed.
Whether you’re married or testing out the waters, sharing a home with your honey inevitably means there’s some lovemaking going on. Or is there?
Before you ring up Dr. Ruth or run down a list of reasons why your significant other is to blame for your lackluster love life, consider the role your home is playing in setting the mood for intimacy. Read more … Keep reading »
I’ve read so much advice about not just hopping into bed with men—about how you should make yourself as exclusive as a luxury brand, and how holding out makes him commit. While normally I’d insert an eye roll here, I’m finally a broken slut. Why? Courtney Love said she doesn’t do one-night stands. She, a woman whose daughter divorced her, said she is too sensitive to just hit and run on guys. That there guitar is the only thing she’ll hump without being bought dinner first! Wow. Color me shocked. Sheesh, maybe I better slow my roll. I definitely don’t want to be out-partying a woman who started a band called Hole! [Yahoo UK]
So, to help sluts like myself stop opening our legs for business after hours, I’ve come up with a handy-dandy list of reasons to avoid one night of sexy times with a stranger. The vag you save may be your own.
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Not everyone can stomach the rush of risky sex. There could be trouble if you get caught with your pants down. Getting it on in illicit places is a bold and exciting move, and may just spice up your sex life an extra notch. The greatest and sexiest part about getting off in any of these locales is the spontaneity and excitement of being naughty. It can of course be mentioned beforehand, just so it’s in the frontal lobes of both your minds so when you exchange that devilish look, it is understood immediately.
Read on to find out how to minimize risk and maximize pleasure when doing it in precarious places. Read more … Keep reading »
Movies frequently offer both voyeuristic entertainment and great ideas for spicing up your sex life. A quick, hypothetical peek at the practices of some not-so-real couples can inspire greatness. We’ve already outlined seven great movie scenes that are worthy of reenactment, but in honor of the upcoming Academy Awards, let’s take a look at some Oscar-worthy performances that are sure to prompt a standing ovation — no speech required. Read more … Keep reading »