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Dear Wendy: “Skype Sex With My Long-Distance Boyfriend Is Awkward”

When I moved out of the country four months ago to take a pretty sweet job abroad, my boyfriend and I decided to do the long-distance thing, and so far everything is great. We haven’t really had any issues other than lack of sleep due to staying up all night on Skype because of the time difference. Recently, we started having some frisky Skype sex sessions. After a couple frustrating attempts on my part, I have secretly started opening up windows and watching porn on silent to help me out. While this works like a charm, a part of me feels guilty, especially since I can see the action side-by-side with my boyfriend and he has no idea. It’s not that I’m not attracted to him … he’s so hot and he definitely turns me on, but I think it’s just nerves and anxiety about having video sex, so I need the extra help. My question is, do I have any reason to be feeling guilty? Is this any different than people picturing themselves with other people while having real sex? Is this something I can mention to my boyfriend, or would it be a complete blow to his ego? We are so open about everything else, I’d hate to keep this from him. — Feeling Like I’m in a Virtual Threesome

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The Sex Rules You Should Break

Here are nine commonly swallowed sexual misconceptions, and the truth, which shall set your sex life free. Oh, and since we all know there can be too much of a good thing (think: Matthew McConaughey, shirtless), we recommend you not trot them all out tonight, lest your regular bedfellow suddenly wonder whom he brought home. Of course — and this should go without saying — safety first, ladies. Read more Keep reading »

I’m Addicted To My Vibrator

It wasn’t meant to go this way.

It was meant to be a fun assignment. A lot of women would dream of being asked to test drive every vibrator on the market and write about their experience for Playboy. And while it wasn’t something my parents were going to be bragging about—or even admitting knowledge of—anytime soon, I loved the idea of covering the sex business from a first-person perspective without having to sell myself or make porn. Almost as an afterthought, it occurred to me that the research might also be informative. Keep reading »

Sex With Steph: How To Have A Threesome

Two years ago, I was lucky enough to find an amazing, loving, and supportive man to share my life with. Our sex life has been GREAT, and we enjoy playing with fantasies. Recently, I admitted that I fantasized about having a threesome with him and another woman, and he told me that he fantasizes about the same thing. (I know, big surprise.)

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A Home Makeover That Will Rev Up Your Sex Life

If your sex life is a snooze, your home may be the culprit. We ask a designer, a sex columnist, a feng shui expert and a marital counselor to share a few sexy house tips to get you back in bed.

Whether you’re married or testing out the waters, sharing a home with your honey inevitably means there’s some lovemaking going on. Or is there?

Before you ring up Dr. Ruth or run down a list of reasons why your significant other is to blame for your lackluster love life, consider the role your home is playing in setting the mood for intimacy. Read more Keep reading »

28 Ways To Stop Yourself From Having A Cheap One-Night Stand

I’ve read so much advice about not just hopping into bed with men—about how you should make yourself as exclusive as a luxury brand, and how holding out makes him commit. While normally I’d insert an eye roll here, I’m finally a broken slut. Why? Courtney Love said she doesn’t do one-night stands. She, a woman whose daughter divorced her, said she is too sensitive to just hit and run on guys. That there guitar is the only thing she’ll hump without being bought dinner first! Wow. Color me shocked. Sheesh, maybe I better slow my roll. I definitely don’t want to be out-partying a woman who started a band called Hole! [Yahoo UK]

So, to help sluts like myself stop opening our legs for business after hours, I’ve come up with a handy-dandy list of reasons to avoid one night of sexy times with a stranger. The vag you save may be your own.
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