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Kama Stupid: New Sex Positions For 2013

The Kama Sutra is the world’s most famous guide to the art of love.  But it’s an ancient Hindu text that’s about over 2,000 years old.  It’s time someone updated it with the latest advances in bedroom fun that can be had.

Have you and your partner ever done it Gangnam Style?  Tried the honey badger?  How about the Zuckerberg plunge?

If not, time to school yourself! Read more…

3 Self-Empowering Steps To A Sexier Sex Life

Are you bored in the bedroom? Becoming more sexually assertive can be one of the easiest and fastest ways to get more of what you want from your sex life. If you are ready to take ownership of your pleasure and turn up the heat between the sheets, here are a few simple tips that can empower you to create the pleasurable sexual experiences you deserve and desire.

1. Own your pleasure. Know your body is a necessity when it comes to fulfilling sexual experiences. You cannot rely on your partner to “get it right” because you’ll often be left disappointed. Your pleasure is your job and that is even the case when with a partner; knowing what you want and being able to share it is the best way to get the job done. Read more…

5 Ways To Ruin Your Sex Life

Scientists have confirmed that chocolate contains an enzyme that can set off the pleasure centers of the brain in a manner that is similar to the effect sex has on the brain … which is why when some women are too tired for one, they’ll reach for the other — “Not tonight, honey, I’ll have a Hershey’s Kiss instead.”

But what if she’s not tired? What if she’s just plain bored, or not interested in a sex life that isn’t what she imagined? Or maybe it’s not her, but her man sitting on the bed with his stash of M&Ms? This can be prevented, but it takes more than just avoiding the candy aisle at the supermarket. That’s why we’ve put together a list of the five most common barriers to a healthy sex life. If any of these look familiar to you, there is a way out. Read more…

5 Sex Habits To Break Before The New Year

Everyone has a few bad habits. Are yours related to sex? Here are some sexual habits to consider breaking right away:

1. Having sex only in the dark. Unless you’ve lied about your gender, you have nothing to hide during sex. He can feel your body, and he’s been looking at it since you met. If he really disliked it, you wouldn’t be making love right now. So relax and free your body from the prison of darkness.

If the glare of stadium lights isn’t appealing, try a few candles instead. A light in the hallway or bathroom outside the bedroom can be gentle, too. Remember, just because you don’t like one or more parts of your body doesn’t mean he won’t. If you’re baffled, ask him exactly what he likes about the body part that offends you — and believe him. Read more…

10 Sex Don’ts That Should NEVER Happen In The Bedroom

No matter how you put it — knock boots, smush, do the deed, get dirty — everyone has certain things they love during sex. Maybe you’re into girl on top. Maybe you’re a missionary kind of lady. Heck, maybe you get off when your guy wears a monkey suit. To each her own.

However, there are some things that are just absolute no-nos between the sheets. Yeah you may not like a dirty talker, but that doesn’t mean it’s an absolute don’t. They do exist, though. Check out 10 of our biggest sex don’ts here…

Exercises To Enhance Your Sex Life

Sex and sports: what do they two have in common?  For starters, both require good performance in order to succeed.

You’ve seen the TV advertisements, you’ve browsed the vitamin/pill aisle for a quick fix, and you’ve been subscribing to Cosmo for years. But there still seems to be something missing from your sex life. The answer: exercise.

I think we can all agree on one thing: sex is great. But what if it could be better? What if a few pelvic-thrusts on the MAT could really improve your pelvic-thrusts on the MATress? Well, they can. Read more…

Meow! 4 Ways To Try Role-Playing In The Bedroom

Today, I am going to teach you four, really awesome role-play ideas you can try out with your partner to spice things up, explore your fantasies and generally just have a lot more fun when it comes to love-making. (If you are looking for even more great sex tips, make sure to check out the Bad Girl’s Bible).

But before I teach you each of these role-playing ideas, I want to quickly cover three very important different factors so that you get the most out of each of these role play ideas with your partner. Read more…

29 More Sex Tips From Sexperts

Last year we brought you 29 Sex Tips From Sexperts and this year we’re back with 29 more “Dos and Don’ts” from sex doctors, coaches, columnists and authors. We’re super excited to bring our readers these tips on kink, masturbation, communication and how to have the best orgasms. This sexpert advice is tried and true. I mean, who wouldn’t trust Dear Prudence? The Coquette? Or the authors of WTF Are Men Thinking?

Get ready for some amazing advice from the best, brightest and sexiest experts on doing the dirty deed. When you’re done be sure to check out last year’s feature, Just The Tips: 29 Sex Tips From 29 SexpertsRead more…

7 Sex Tips From Cosmo That Will Put You In The Hospital

You’ve walked innocently past issues of Cosmopolitan magazine a thousand times, every time you’ve checked out at a grocery store. If you glanced at the covers then you know it’s all about sex, and helping girls bring out the sexual animal in their man.

But littered amongst their mildly kinky and often impractical advice (“wear a wet t-shirt to bed!”) you get horrifying tips that border on genital mutilation.

Think we’re kidding? As we speak, Cosmo is advising women to… Keep reading »

10 Tips For Having Sex After Huge Holiday Meals

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Dan Savage suggests fucking before dinner. And yeah, that’s probably the best policy when it comes to huge holiday meals like Thanksgiving or Christmas dinner. But if you can’t make that happen for whatever reason (and there are plenty of reasons, like FAMILY STRESS), you might find yourself in an emotional place where you need to seek solace in the comfort of sex after the biggest meal of your life. If that’s the place you find yourself in, or if holidays just make you horny, there are ways to work around that five-pound food baby in your stomach. Some tips for post-huge dinner sex after the jump. Keep reading »