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How To Embrace A Long-Distance Relationship

“I took a job in another city, which will cause me to be away from my husband for long periods of time. What can we do to make our long-distance relationship work?” Phoebe, New York

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    The Anti-Bachelorette Party

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    Love Vandal: Trees Have Hearts, Too

    Okay, so this isn’t really graffiti per se, but how often do you see a little heart in a tree? Reader Katelyn sent us this photo in Philadelphia.

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    20 Relationships And Technology Dos And Don’ts

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