Category Archives: Relationships

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Girl Talk: I Dated His Clone To Get Over Him

Terrible Breakups
Bad breakups to be thankful for Read More »
I Was The Crazy Ex
One writer talks about becoming the crazy ex-girlfriend after a breakup. Read More »
Getting Closure
8 Ways To Get Closure
8 ways to get closure in a relationship. Read More »

When Trevor posted a Facebook suggestion that we go somewhere tropical where he could “teach me to scuba dive” and we could “smile again,” I jumped at the chance.

Trevor was six foot one, built like a SubZero and fluent in, at last count, five languages – several of which were dead. I was almost exactly half his size – a slender 120 pound, 5 foot 7 brunette with overwhelming ambition. We’d dated in graduate school, nearly eight years before, and after I joined Facebook we’d flirted back and forth. Keep reading »

Girl Talk: If Guys Don’t Care When We Poop, Why Do We?

Pooping: A Feminist Issue
One writer talks about how pooping is a feminist issue. Read More »
Pooping Etiquette
10 bathroom rules that couples should abide by. Read More »
Poop At Work
bathroom stall photo
Do you poop in your office bathroom? Some women don't! Read More »
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Back in college, my best dude friend laughingly told me a horrifying — and quite possibly apocryphal — story about a “friend of a friend” whose one-night stand lost control of her bowels during a particularly energetic bout of anal sex. Embarrassed for the woman, I tentatively asked what the man did at that point, figuring he’d gotten angry or flipped out or ran into the bathroom to vomit.

“Oh,” my friend said nonchalantly, “Duh. He took her into the bedroom and kept going.”

The story’s stuck with me for years and not just for the gross-out factor: the more I’d hear about women afraid to crap in their boyfriends’ apartments or in shared hotel room bathrooms on weekend getaways, about psychosomatic constipation related to the mere presence of a man with whom a woman was having sexual relations, the more I’d think about the nonchalant way men talk about shit and wonder if we were really just doing all of this to ourselves. Is it really that men (or, at least the kind of men you’d want near your genitals) need us to be poop-and-fart free to want to fuck us, or have we just convinced ourselves they did? Or, worse yet, are we projecting our own learned squeamishness about our bodily functions onto men, as a way to rationalize yet another internalization of the “our bodies are gross” myths that pervade society? Keep reading »

The “Guessing Game” Gone Horribly Wrong

"30 Rock" Returns!
Check out the season six promo! Watch »
HBO's "Girls"
We're psyched for Lena Dunham's debut TV show, "Girls." Watch »
Why Funny Women Rule
Mind of Man
John DeVore on why funny women are a natural resource. Read More »
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Couples can get into real trouble when it comes to the guessing game — as evidenced by this little clip, featuring Broad City star Ilana Glazer. Sometimes it’s so much better just to come out and tell your partner what’s going on, ladies. [YouTube]

7 Things We’ve Learned About Life Since High School

Love Lessons
7 things we've learned about love since high school. Read More »
Friendship Facts
7 things we've learned about friendship since high school. Read More »
Review: "Young Adult"
Our "We See Chick Flicks" review of Cody's new film. Read More »

In “Young Adult,” Diablo Cody’s new film opening Dec. 16, Charlize Theron plays Mavis, a divorced novelist who returns to her home in small-town Minnesota determined to rekindle a romance with her high school boyfriend. Mavis may have gotten older, but she hasn’t exactly grown up or figured out how to let go of the past.

Luckily, we have! In addition to the lessons we’ve learned about love and friendship since we were tossing our caps in the air at 18, we’ve also gleaned some pearls of wisdom about life in general. Check out the seven things we’ve learned about life since high school after the jump! Keep reading »

Girl Talk: I Am Not Kat Dennings

My Nose Job
One writer talks about getting a nose job. Read More »
Joan Gives Me Confidence
Why Joan Holloway from "Mad Men" gave this woman confidence. Read More »
My Reality Run-Ins
My mom always wants to set me up with guys from reality TV. Read More »

This fall the strangest thing started happening to me. I’d be walking down the street, and person after person after person (mostly women) would be staring at my face.

The first couple times I assumed what anyone would assume: I had food in my teeth or my lipstick on my face or a booger hanging out of my nose. But then, the first, second, third time, I looked in the mirror, I didn’t.

The stares continued. So many women, day after day. I wanted to stop them and ask, “Why?” There was no way this many strangers were suddenly interested in my face. It was the same face I’d always had.

Then one day, one of my gawkers whispered to her friend, “It’s Kat Dennings!” Keep reading »

Girl Talk: People Have Strong Feelings About My Ovaries

Asking Big Questions
I always ask the big questions when it comes to dating. Read More »
Tick, Tick, Tick
29 signs your biological clock is ticking. Read More »
Condom Commandments
The rules of condoms. Read More »

When you’re 32, have no serious romantic prospects besides the one(s) in your head, most of your close friends are getting married or having babies, and the only thing you’re sure of is that you’d like to have a baby someday too, you spend a lot of time thinking about how that’s going to happen. I am not proud of being a chick flick stereotype, believe me, but I looked in the mirror this morning and that’s what I saw and, well, time to face facts. Keep reading »

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