Category Archives: Relationships

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An Update To My “Oops” Post

Jessica's Oops!
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A guy asked her out and she laughed. Read More »
Dating Good Guys
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This week marks my third anniversary at The Frisky. (Amelia, where’s my damn cake?!) I know well by now the responses posts garner from readers — both “positive” and “negative.” Admittedly in the first year or so, aggressive or cruel reactions to my blog posts would surprise — genuinely surprise — and upset me. Despite my strongly worded, “loud” opinions in blog posts, I’m actually rather quiet,  shy, thoughtful, and low-key in real life. By year three, I understand just what it means to put some of myself out there — whether it’s my opinions or my personal life — and how some people will react.

So I knew what I was doing, you could say, when I wrote the post “Oops: A Guy Asked Me On A Date & Laughed With Him.” I saw that piece as an awkward dating tale — er, asking out tale? — that are The Frisky’s bread and butter. I assumed, perhaps incorrectly, other readers would chime in with similar stories of guys asking them out and them responding in awkward ways. We’ve all been there, ladies, have we not?  Keep reading »

20 Things I’m Thankful For This Year

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All you shall need to survive the Thanksgiving Holiday Frisky style. Read More »
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20 Things Amelia is thankful for this year. Read More »
Jessica's Thankful For ...
20 things Jessica is thankful for this year. Read More »

This year, in honor of the upcoming Thanksgiving holiday, The Frisky staff is going to be sharing our lists of what we’re thankful for. Amelia, Jessica, and Julie all shared — now it’s time for Ami! Keep reading »

How To Share A Bed With Your BF At The Parents’ House Without Epic Awkwardness

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10 things not to do at your first holiday dinner with his folks. Read More »
Everything Thanksgiving!
All you shall need to survive the Thanksgiving Holiday Frisky style. Read More »
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Ahh, Thanksgiving. A time of turkey, travel, tryptophan, and repeated viewings of “A Christmas Story” surrounded by family. If you’re coupled up in a relationship, you boo is probably in the picture, too, and perhaps-awkwardly negotiating an overnight bedroom situation. Will he be sleeping in your room (read: bed)? Will he be banished to the guest room with veiled threats from your mom that he’d better stay there all night? Did your normally-cool parents suddenly become sexytimes-Nazis? Why the hell is this such a big deal?! You share a bed all the time at your apartment!

Dear reader, I wish I knew. Parental figures can get weird about their kids’ sharing beds over the holidays, even when they know you’ve been dating for a long time … or have been living together for three years. There’s no sense in fighting it, unless you want to make the weekend awkward and put S-E-X on everyone’s mind. Whether he’s joining you and yours for the festivities, or you are joining him and his, here’s how to share a bed at a parents’ house without epic awkwardness.  Keep reading »

20 Things I’m Thankful For This Year

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10 reasons to be thankful you're flying solo on T-Day. Read More »
Everything Thanksgiving!
All you shall need to survive the Thanksgiving Holiday Frisky style. Read More »
Hey Girl, No Thanks
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This year, in honor of the upcoming Thanksgiving holiday, The Frisky staff is going to be sharing our lists of what we’re thankful for. Amelia and Jessica shared last week. Now it’s Julie’s turn.

Keep reading »

Girl Talk: My Best New Year’s Eve Ever Is Yet To Come

Mind Of Man
Mind Of Man
John DeVore thinks resolutions are for suckers. Read More »
Resolutions For Men
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Traditions & Superstitions
The craziest superstitions associated with New Year's! Read More »

If a movie was to be based on my love life, it would be called “New Year’s Eve.” (Or it would be called that if there wasn’t already a movie coming out with that very name and, in fact, sponsoring this very post.) But seriously, if I actually had the patience to sit down and write a screenplay based on the longest, most significant romantic relationship of my adult life, it would be a rom-com and if the name was available, it would be called “New Year’s Eve.” Here’s why. Keep reading »

Oops: A Guy Asked Me On A Date And I Laughed At Him

Dating Good Guys
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Not every woman wants to date an a-hole. Read More »
Dating Don'ts
How NOT to act crazy when online dating. Read More »
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Jessica’s Note on 11/23/11: An update to this post has been published here.

Late Sunday afternoon, I was lying around watching reruns of “Millionaire Matchmaker” when I realized I would fall asleep if I didn’t caffienate, pronto. I paused Patti Stanger, threw on my coat, and scurried to the local coffee shop. I expected a quick in-and-out, but one of the employees stopped to chat with me near a bag of beans.

You see, I go to this coffee shop three or four times a week and its always the same people working there. Ever since I moved into the neighborhood and quickly became a regular customer, I’ve had regular, friendly nod-smile-ask-how-are-you chitchat with them.  You know, the kind of pleasantries that makes a neighborhood feel like “yours.”

So it wasn’t out of the ordinary to start chatting with this guy. Yesterday, as with every other day I run into him, we discussed only two topics: how are you and how’s the weather. I really didn’t want to chat; I wanted to get back to my TiVo on pause. So, I was caught off guard when he asked my name for the first time, told me his for the first time, and then said, “Sometime, I would like to take you out to dinner.”

Then I did something I’m not proud of: I burst out laughing, turned my back on him, and walked away. Keep reading »

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