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Dear Wendy: “He Got Us Both Pregnant At The Same Time”

No NYE Date?
"He still hasn't made New Year's Eve plans with me..." Read More »
Bad Baby Daddy
"My baby daddy isn't supporting our child." Read More »
Dear Wendy
"I want to dump my parents." Read More »

I’m four months pregnant and split with my boyfriend of one year a week ago. He has a son with someone who he was “banging” before me, though they never had a relationship. I got used to him having a kid and things were okay. When he got used to the idea that we were having a baby he was happy because he said it was with “someone he loved a lot.”After we broke up he kept trying to talk to me but I kept ignoring him til one night he begged me to talk to him so I gave in and went to see him. He told me how much he wanted us to be together for the baby and I was considering giving it a try, but then he said, “I have to tell you something,” and he told me his baby mama might be pregnant for him again. He said he didn’t know how it happened — he was soo dang drunk he doesn’t remember anything happening. We were broken during that time and I guess he sorta thinks if he doesn’t remember what he did and that we were split up it shouldn’t matter.

I love him a lot and I want us to be together for our baby but this situation just seems so effed up. He said he wants to be with me and our baby and that he doesn’t want her to have another kid for him. He also begged me if we could still just try and be together, but I can’t figure out what to do but hope she’s lying. She had their first kid to trap him but he doesn’t want to be with her at all. I need help. This is tearing me apart. — Confused Baby Mama

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9 Reasons Why The Holidays Are The Perfect Time To Jump Into A Relationship

Behind His Gift...
What he was thinking when he got you... Read More »
Single For The Holidays?
How to survive. Read More »
Find Love in 2012!
Six ways to support your New Year's resolution for love. Read More »

The winter holidays are a fun and joyous occurrence that we are only lucky enough to experience once a year. Are you spending them alone? Here are nine reasons why you shouldn’t be. Keep reading »

Girl Talk: The Good Thing About Bad Dates

Total Turn-Offs
Things guys have said to us that have totally turned us off. Read More »
Dating Isn't Personal
Ami talks about how she realized dating was not to be taken personally. Read More »

When I told Amelia I was going to write something about why I like bad dates, she asked me, “Do you really like them?”

“Of course not!” I replied. “Does anyone?”

No. Everyone hates bad dates. There is nothing that destroys your spirit more than spending an evening with someone whose company you quickly discover you can’t stand. A bad date can make you want to go home and take 17 showers or encourage you to start wearing ankle-length skirts. Because obviously, you are going to die a lonely spinster.

After exceptionally bad dates, my best friend used to joke, “I am having a funeral for my vagina.”

Her description, while hilarious, is not that far off. A bad date is like a mini-death. It’s a moment when your balloon of hope about the prospect of romance gets deflated. Keep reading »

The Dos & Don’ts Of Your Online Dating Profile Photo

Online Dating
John DeVore thinks it's a waste of time. Do you? Read More »
Technology And Dating
Technology and dating dos and don'ts. Read More »
Dating Good Guys
boyfriend photo
Not every woman wants to date an a-hole. Read More »

If we’re to believe the marketing geniuses at Match.com, one in five couples now meets online. We’ve been looking, and dang, have we seen some messed up profile pictures. Listen, it’s sad but true, but your online dating profile pic can make the difference between somebody asking you out or moving right along. We’re superficial, we know these things and are guilty of passing on perfectly nice guys because they looked stanky in their pics. As such, we’ve come up with a simple list of dos and don’ts for both men and women to follow when selecting their all-important profile images. These suggestions have been culled with the help of our picky dude friends who have looked at countless online profiles, too, so they know what they’re talking about.

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Girl Talk: Let’s Talk About Negging

First Date Mistakes
Here are 10 ways NOT to make a good impression. Read More »
Guys' Pre-Date Nerves
The guys on our IM share! Read More »

I was at the bar at the Mandarin Oriental in Las Vegas enjoying a glass of champagne and having an intense one-in-the-morning chat with a new friend about raising kids (she’s a mom, I want to be one) when a young, casually-dressed guy came over and put his hand on both our backs. He was cute and friendly and something about his unexpected approach sparked my interest. I wasn’t there looking to meet anyone, but I rarely get hit on, so I paid attention. My friend was married and not too impressed with him but she retired and let me judge for myself. Keep reading »

Girl Talk: I’m Sick Of Women Talking About Weight

My Nose Job
One writer talks about getting a nose job. Read More »
He Told Me To Lose Weight
When he told me to lose weight, I got rid of him. Read More »
No Body Snarking!
susan sarandon photo
Susan Sarandon hates when young women snark on their bodies. Read More »

The other day, I found myself engaging in conversation with a stranger at the grocery store about weight.

“God,” the woman said, pausing near me in the aisle as I considered a package of cookies. “I wish.”

I laughed. “Yeah, I’m trying to decide if it’s worth it.”

“Go for it,” she said, grinning. “You can always hit the gym after.”

She went on her way. I put the cookies back. I thought about it. I picked them up again and put them in my basket. What the hell? I never go to the gym. I’m terrible at treadmills and I’m lazy. Or maybe I’m terrible at treadmills because I’m lazy. It’s a chicken/egg kinda thing. Keep reading »

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