Make It Stop: “Why Do Dudes Keep Flaking On Me?”

Anna Goldfarb | September 28, 2015 - 2:00 pm

Being blown off, well, BLOWS. More »

10 Signs You’re Dating A Fitz

Lauren Vinopal | September 28, 2015 - 1:15 pm

He may be President on “Scandal,” but he’s also a drip to date on screen AND off. More »

Check Your Vibes: 8 Ways To Make Friends Like A Grown-Up

Claire Hannum | September 28, 2015 - 12:00 pm

Remember when you were in middle school and your new future BFF sort of just appeared next to you in your third period science class, and you were suddenly joined at the hip for the next five years without even realizing what was happening? Weren’t those days easy? Once we’re older and out in the… More »

Girl On Girl: Tinder, Modern Love & Watery Maybes

Morgan Cohn | September 25, 2015 - 2:00 pm

There’s an important point to be made about how easy it is to ghost people or cancel plans now. We now say no at a lower emotional cost. That means we can say yes more. More »

On Loving Men Who Can’t Love Back

Julia Weiss | September 23, 2015 - 1:00 pm

Lusting after images of men, of copies of them, seems to be a safe way for a girl to figure out her body. But it’s a terrible way for a woman to figure out her heart. More »

Dater X: Free Fall

Dater X 3.0 | September 22, 2015 - 12:00 pm

I’ve been thinking a lot about falling, and not just because I’m absurdly accident prone.
For one thing, fall is here and there’s no denying it; it’s dark by 7 p.m. and there are already a surprising number of crackly leaves underfoot in the parks. But I’ve also been thinking about the act of falling:… More »

Check Your Vibes: Is Being Loyal Ever A Bad Thing?

Claire Hannum | September 22, 2015 - 10:00 am

I was on the phone with my mom the other day, pondering aloud whether switching dentists was a regrettable thing to do, when I mentioned that in a way, I’d feel a bit guilty about making the change. After all, when you trust someone enough to get up in your business and clean your teeth… More »

9 Reasons Bald Boyfriends Are The Best

Pop Sugar | September 21, 2015 - 2:45 pm

I like bald guys. It’s not just that I don’t mind if a guy is losing his hair. I think it’s hot. While I recognize that not every 16-year-old girl has a crush on her balding biology teacher, I think women should give bald men another look. In my well-informed opinion, they make the best… More »

Make It Stop: “Did My OKCupid Date Stick Me In The Friendzone?”

Anna Goldfarb | September 18, 2015 - 12:00 pm

They messaged online and texted for weeks, but when they met up in person, he didn’t seem as interested. What’s up with that? More »

Grown Ass Lady Posts A Love Note Left For Her Boyfriend By Their 12-Year-Old Neighbor

Lauren Vinopal | September 18, 2015 - 9:00 am

C’mon, 12-year-old girls have it hard enough. … More »

One Day Less: I’m Dying, What’s Your Excuse For Being An Asshole?

Killer Titz | September 17, 2015 - 1:30 pm

Death and taxes are a fact of life. Unfortunately for more than 70,000 women (and men) in the U.S. between the ages of 20-39, they will add cancer to that list too, more specifically breast cancer. It’s a growing epidemic striking more women per year and at younger ages. In fact, every day, three womenMore »

There’s A New Dating App About Bacon If You’re Hungry For Love

Lauren Vinopal | September 16, 2015 - 5:30 pm

“Liking bacon is not a personality,” Joe Robinow tweeted on August 28th. Well Joe, it seems Oscar Mayer (one of the leading authorities on bacon) disagrees and thinks it can help you find love. Enter Sizzl, a new real, free iOS app made for helping bacon lovers find love with each other.
This app appears to be a promotional… More »

Is There Such A Thing As “Ethics” In Public Confessional Writing?

Robyn Pennacchia | September 16, 2015 - 1:20 pm

What are the rules for when your own personal confessions involve other people? More »

Check Your Vibes: 10 Things I’ve Learned About Grief To Help Get You Through

Claire Hannum | September 16, 2015 - 10:20 am

A little over a year ago, my dad died very unexpectedly, something I’ve written about a lot on this site. As time has gone on, the nature of my grief has evolved (it still is), and I feel that so much has changed since that day in August since I first received a slewMore »

My House: An Incomplete Search For Home

Julia Weiss | September 16, 2015 - 9:00 am

I grew up in a rural town in west central Illinois called Monmouth. Monmouth was rough. My dad taught at Monmouth College, which made my brother, sister and me nerds or snobs depending on the day and the hater. Our schools were among the lowest performing in the state: for the most part our teachers… More »

Dater X: Winter Is Coming

Dater X 3.0 | September 15, 2015 - 12:30 pm

Fall showed up this week like something out of an Alice Hoffman novel, landing flatly and without prelude on my thermostat as the sun set on Labor Day. The humidity dissipated like perfume when someone leaves the room; the lush August greenery was suddenly edged with brown, blowing in a breeze that pricked goosebumps onto… More »

On Donald Trump & Fathers Who Sexualize Their Daughters

Tiffanie Drayton | September 14, 2015 - 12:00 pm

Late one summer night, I received a message on Facebook.

“You looked so sexy,” it read. More »

Make It Stop: “I Met A Great, Funny, Smart Guy Online — But I’m Not Attracted To Him”

Anna Goldfarb | September 11, 2015 - 1:00 pm

Is it wrong for her to continue getting to know him if she’s not sure it’ll lead anywhere? More »

13 Questionable Relationship Lessons From ‘Bachelor In Paradise’

Lauren Vinopal | September 10, 2015 - 10:30 am

There are a lot of strange lessons to be learned from Bachelor In Paradise. … More »

Tinder Is Rolling Out A New Super-Like Feature For Users With No Chill

Amelia McDonell-Parry | September 9, 2015 - 5:00 pm

Let’s talk about online dating for a second, OK? I have active accounts on Tinder, OK Cupid, Hinge and Coffee Meet Bagel (ugh, I hate this last one and its stupid name, so much I’m deleting it from my phone as soon as I’m done writing this post), but these days I mostly stick to… More »

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