relationships

10 Signs You Might Be Suffering From Post-Breakup Insanity

Ugly Breakups
When breakups get ugly. Read More »
Moving On
Here are some tips for moving on after a breakup. Read More »
Getting Closure
8 Ways To Get Closure
8 ways to get closure in a relationship. Read More »

After a particularly bad breakup, most of us would admit to some crazy behavior. Of course, crazy is in the eye of the beholder … or the receiver. It may start innocently enough with drunken texts, Facebook stalking or obsessing over your need for closure. Unfortunately, every once and a while, a breakup sends even the most level-headed woman into a tailspin.

According to the DSM-IV (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders), there are nearly 400 diagnosable mental disorders — none of which have anything to do with the sudden onset of insanity after a breakup. Even doctors can get it wrong sometimes. In 1974, the APA removed homosexuality from the DSM as a mental disorder (thank you!), and they’ve added new disorders to the list since, such as Frotteurism (behaviors involving touching and rubbing against a non-consenting person). While a bad breakup probably won’t induce Frotteurism, it can cause seemingly intelligent, beautiful, educated, wonderful women to lose control. For the DSM-V, which comes out next year, I would like to offer up a new disorder for consideration — Post-Breakup Insanity, or PBI. Keep reading »

Girl Talk: I Would Like To Have Guy Friends

Friends We Need
Six types of friends every woman needs. Read More »
Friendship Turned Love
One writer talks about how she fell in love with her best friend. Read More »
FWB Rules
Here are some rules to make your friendship with benefits work. Read More »

For the longest time, I have only had one guy friend. And I used to date him, in college. Which complicates things. It makes my husband Bear uncomfortable. It makes me uncomfortable, too. Not the him being my friend part. That’s fine. It happened naturally. We’re horrible gossips together.  But I wish I could erase our dating past. I shouldn’t have dated him. Even while I was dating him, I was hazily aware of that.

I am bad at guy friends. I have only had a few. Which makes me totally uncool, I know. Keep reading »

4 Things To Remember If You Never Hear From Them Again

No Ghosting
Thou shalt not ghost your love interests. Read More »
Dating Red Flags
guys
These red flags should send you running. Read More »
Second Date Moves
These moves will probably land you a second date. Read More »

The third date was perfect. You laughed, you flirted, your hands grazed as you both reached for the cheesiest nacho.

Eight days later — nothing. They haven’t called or answered your text(s). You’ve been checking their Facebook profile so sadly you’re sure they were not a victim of a tragic accident en route to dropping off flowers or serenading you outside of your window with an iPod dock and the latest episode of This American Life. Keep reading »

Your Friskyscopes For The Week Of May 21-27, 2012

Gemini (May 21-June 20): Happy times are coming when a surprise will hit you out of nowhere, sending your mind, body and heart into a whole new realm of ecstasy. Yes, optimism and hope are on the way to save the day, as fate has written a plot line that will give you exactly what you love — lots of choices!

Cancer (June 21-July 22): It’s okay to make a fool of yourself, because when you look back on this week, you’ll regret it if you didn’t give yourself over completely—even if that means humiliation is one of the consequences. As they say, noting ventured, nothing gained, but this time around, you will see a breakthrough of some sort, if only in your mind, that will be good enough. Keep reading »

Apartment Hunting Isn’t All That Different From Looking For Love

Cohabitation Tips
How to survive moving in together. Read More »
To Pee Or Not To Pee...
...specifically in the shower. Do you? Read More »
Living Alone Rocks
Seven things you'll miss out on by not living alone at least once! Read More »
Don't Cohabitate!
John DeVore doesn't believe in living together. Read More »

Click here to see the full infographic.

The old saying goes, you’re either looking for a man, an apartment or a job. In NYC, it often tends to be two out of three. “The Dating Game: Finding The Perfect Apartment” breaks down the stats and points out the similarities between apartment hunting and dude hunting. Oh how similar they are. They both involve a lot of looking and a non-negotiable checklist. There’s a reason I rent. Keep reading »

The 6 Types Of Wedding Dates

There is a reason why I prefer to go to weddings solo — for fear that I will bring numbers one through five as my date. I enjoy bringing my self respect as my plus one and dancing until I no longer have any. [Buzzfeed]

Artwork by Christiann MacAuley. You can see more of her work on stickycomics.com. Follow her on Twitter at @stickycomics.

8 Mistakes Every Bridesmaid Should Avoid

It’s an honor to stand up in a friend’s wedding, and along with that recognition comes a range of responsibilities — but just how far do those responsibilities stretch? Where’s the line between helpful and overbearing, between celebrating and insulting? When it comes to wedding dos and don’ts, the boundaries aren’t always clear. If you plan to be a bridesmaid any time soon, avoid these common blunders to maintain your integrity and make sure your friend feels supported on her big day. Read more…

16 Things You Hate About Your Body That Men Love

Hate your hips? Whether they are too flabby, too bony, too narrow, too wide or otherwise unpleasant to your eyes, chances are, most men find them attractive. Women waste an immeasurable amount of time sweating about body parts that men find sexy in any number of physical states. Check out this list to find out why you should learn to love your so-called flaws after all.

1. Feet.  Many men secretly love women’s feet. They don’t even pay attention to the usual body parts that you may be squeamish about. Read more …

7 Ways Of Saying Sorry That Are Actually Worse Than Saying Nothing At All

Not Sorry
Zooey isn't apologizing for being a girly-girl. Read More »
Apology Refused
Jessica Simpson photo
Jessica Simpson tells Oprah she'll never forgive John Mayer. Read More »
Tracy's Apology
tracy morgan photo
Tracy Morgan apologized and says he's actually for gay marriage. Read More »

Like Ruben Studdard sang so lovingly in “I’m Sorry (2004)” — guys, I love that song — there’s a lot of things we have to apologize for to our loved ones. But some of us understand the finesse of a good apology better than others. And so often, we ladies get particularly terrible apologies from the dudes in our lives.

After the jump, horrible, annoying apologies we’ve gotten. And add your worst apologies in the comments! Keep reading »

Yo, Relationship Advice Is Now Available On Tumblr

"Savage U" Sex Advice
This sex advice from "Savage U" is great. Read More »
Crotch Sniffer?
The weirdest relationship advice question we've ever seen. Read More »

I feel a responsibility to let you know when I spend a stupid amount of time on any given Tumblr. Today, I have dedicated myself to Yo, Should I Dump This Asshole? It’s pretty self explanatory: people ask if they should dump the asshole they’re dating and Yo responds. I’ve compiled a few of my favorites here. The guy who likes Ayn Rand but gives good BJs? Yo says dump. Not so sure I agree. The guy who doesn’t like trees or sun? DUMP FOR SURE. The guy who’s convinced he’s a vampire? Who’s asking? I can’t even. I wish this site was around when I went out with the guy who said all he needed in life was the company of his cat. I would have loved to see Yo’s response. Obviously, I dumped this man. I hate cats. [The Hairpin]