Make It Stop: Should I Go To My Ex’s Wedding?

Anna Goldfarb | March 25, 2016 - 12:00 pm

On one hand, I want to support him, but on the other hand, I’m not sure how it would make my boyfriend feel to be my date to my ex’s wedding. More »

Dater X: Meet The Parents

Dater X 3.0 | March 22, 2016 - 1:00 pm

This week in Things I Worried About But Shouldn’t Have: The Bartender met my parents.

Generally speaking, I don’t tend to fret about boyfriends meeting Mama and Papa X. For one thing, my parents are delightful humans who go out of their way to be friendly to all of the rare specimens that… More »

I Went on a Date With a (Closeted) MRA

Sarah Khan | March 21, 2016 - 2:15 pm

I’ve been doing the online dating thing for a while now, but never had I had a date so negatively noteworthy that it affected me for more than a few hours after, until a couple of weeks ago when I found myself on a date with closeted MRA.

I’m on OKCupid (again), Tinder,… More »

Make It Stop: I’m Reluctant To Meet My Internet Friend IRL

Anna Goldfarb | March 18, 2016 - 12:00 pm

They should just stay in the computer, where they belong, yeah? More »

Baby Betting Is More Exciting Than March Madness TBH

Lauren Duca | March 18, 2016 - 11:30 am

The hottest new betting sensation is: your unborn child!  More »

Coming Out Forever and Ever

Morgan Cohn | March 17, 2016 - 12:30 pm

Coming out of the closet is like having a gay bat mitzvah. It’s a rite of passage during an awkward era of your life full of questionable fashion choices and uncomfortable self-discovery until you say some things in front of a bunch of people and suddenly find yourself with a new status in society.
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Here’s A Sexy Farmer “Dudeoir” Shoot For Your Hump Day Perusal

Rebecca Vipond Brink | March 16, 2016 - 6:00 pm

Dudeoir photo shoots forever. More »

Dater X: Moving Right Along

Dater X 3.0 | March 15, 2016 - 1:30 pm

With things mostly calm here in my world, I thought this week might be a good one for a recap, and with it, some additional stories that haven’t always fit into my weekly columns since I started seeing The Bartender.

I noticed that there seem to be some misunderstandings about how much time… More »

Karma Is Definitely Real If This Insane Cheating Story Is True

College Candy | March 14, 2016 - 6:30 pm

Oh, Reddit. One could get lost on there for days. Most of the time you’re just watching cat videos or looking for the most ridiculous answers on Ask Reddits questions, but other times you come across true gems.

Take, for example, this short and true story by Redditor InsaneRN. When he found out his wife was cheating… More »

Relationship Advice: When To Listen To Your Friends And When To Ignore Them

Ask Men | March 13, 2016 - 5:00 pm

When you need a nice, smooth whiskey after the long work week or when your girlfriend has been stressing you out and you need to talk about anything — anything! — other than your relationship, your buddies are there for you. While you may not be tagging them in Instagram posts as you #besties, your… More »

Get Closer To Your SO With A 7-Day Intimacy Challenge!

Pop Sugar | March 13, 2016 - 9:30 am

Look, I get it — relationships get stale. You’ve been together for, like, 56 years, and it can feel as though you’ve both seen all there is to see. He’s walked in on you peeing. You’ve witnessed him shaving his manhood. He’s heard you singing Adele into your hairbrush. You found his secret stash of… More »

Make It Stop: I Want a Second Chance at Love!

Anna Goldfarb | March 11, 2016 - 12:00 pm

How do I rekindle the flame?! More »

Is My Husband Really ‘A Narcissist’ (Or Is He Just A Jerk?) | March 10, 2016 - 6:00 pm

There is nothing worse than being in a relationship with a man who only thinks about himself. You know this guy, he’s the one who constantly needs attention; whose ego is bruised at the slightest criticism; who always needs to get his way whether it’s by picking the restaurant or deciding which side of the bed… More »

I Attempted To Go On A Different Date Every Week For A Year — Here’s What Happened

Pop Sugar | March 9, 2016 - 6:30 pm

When The Weather Girls wrote their hit ’80s song “It’s Raining Men,” I believe they were preemptively singing about my first Summer in San Francisco. I had just graduated and moved to the city. I had great girlfriends and a cool new job but absolutely zero love life. After the initial thrill of being a… More »

Dater X: Face Value

Dater X 3.0 | March 8, 2016 - 12:02 pm

It’s about time I admitted something that you probably already knew or guessed: This column has an undeniable impact on my dating life. More »

43 Ways To Be Single

Amelia McDonell-Parry | March 8, 2016 - 9:15 am

“Single and ready to mingle”? Please. Being single is so much more complex and unpredictable than that. More »

The Types Of Guys Women Try Their Hardest To Avoid

Ask Men | March 7, 2016 - 6:30 pm

Have you ever wondered if the way you act makes women cringe? Have you ever worried that your behavior might be making them run in the other direction?

Just as women are attracted to certain archetypal men, there are other types of men that women go out of their way to avoid. And… More »

Here’s What Men Need To Know About Supporting Survivors Of Sexual Assault

Ask Men | March 6, 2016 - 5:30 pm

One night during my junior year of college, I found myself sobbing in the closet of my dorm room. In the middle of coming to terms with a childhood of sexual abuse and recent date rape, I was full of intense emotions that were often visceral and always intense. That night, I refused to come… More »

How To Date A Comedian Without It Totally Sucking

Lauren Vinopal | March 3, 2016 - 4:30 pm

Whether it’s on a platonic or romantic level, we’re often attracted to people who make us laugh. And yet comedians have gotten a consistently bad reputation for bombing in relationships. If you’ve sat through even part of a comedy show, you’d know that comedians might be their own category of snowflakes, but they’re all still different. Being similarly sucky at relationships… More »

How Sleeping With Other People Makes Me Love Being Married

Pop Sugar | March 2, 2016 - 2:00 pm

“Do you think I’m the kind of person who can pull off saying the word ‘lover’?” I ask my husband over coffee one Thursday morning a few weeks ago. I am sitting on the couch in my underwear, watching him flip casually through his phone. He is probably checking the OKCupid app, seeing if any… More »

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