Relationships

9 Reasons Bald Boyfriends Are The Best

I like bald guys. It’s not just that I don’t mind if a guy is losing his hair. I think it’s hot. While I recognize that not every 16-year-old girl has a crush on her balding biology teacher, I think women should give bald men another look. In my well-informed opinion, they make the best… More »


Make It Stop: “Did My OKCupid Date Stick Me In The Friendzone?”

They messaged online and texted for weeks, but when they met up in person, he didn’t seem as interested. What’s up with that? More »


Grown Ass Lady Posts A Love Note Left For Her Boyfriend By Their 12-Year-Old Neighbor

C’mon, 12-year-old girls have it hard enough. More »


One Day Less: I’m Dying, What’s Your Excuse For Being An Asshole?

Death and taxes are a fact of life. Unfortunately for more than 70,000 women (and men) in the U.S. between the ages of 20-39, they will add cancer to that list too, more specifically breast cancer. It’s a growing epidemic striking more women per year and at younger ages. In fact, every day, three womenMore »


There’s A New Dating App About Bacon If You’re Hungry For Love

“Liking bacon is not a personality,” Joe Robinow tweeted on August 28th. Well Joe, it seems Oscar Mayer (one of the leading authorities on bacon) disagrees and thinks it can help you find love. Enter Sizzl, a new real, free iOS app made for helping bacon lovers find love with each other.

This app appears to be… More »


Is There Such A Thing As “Ethics” In Public Confessional Writing?

What are the rules for when your own personal confessions involve other people? More »


Check Your Vibes: 10 Things I’ve Learned About Grief To Help Get You Through

 

A little over a year ago, my dad died very unexpectedly, something I’ve written about a lot on this site. As time has gone on, the nature of my grief has evolved (it still is), and I feel that so much has changed since that day in August since I first receivedMore »


My House: An Incomplete Search For Home

I grew up in a rural town in west central Illinois called Monmouth. Monmouth was rough. My dad taught at Monmouth College, which made my brother, sister and me nerds or snobs depending on the day and the hater. Our schools were among the lowest performing in the state: for the most part our teachers… More »


Dater X: Winter Is Coming

Fall showed up this week like something out of an Alice Hoffman novel, landing flatly and without prelude on my thermostat as the sun set on Labor Day. The humidity dissipated like perfume when someone leaves the room; the lush August greenery was suddenly edged with brown, blowing in a breeze that pricked goosebumps onto… More »


On Donald Trump & Fathers Who Sexualize Their Daughters

Late one summer night, I received a message on Facebook.

“You looked so sexy,” it read. More »


Make It Stop: “I Met A Great, Funny, Smart Guy Online — But I’m Not Attracted To Him”

Is it wrong for her to continue getting to know him if she’s not sure it’ll lead anywhere? More »


13 Questionable Relationship Lessons From ‘Bachelor In Paradise’

There are a lot of strange lessons to be learned from Bachelor In Paradise. More »


Tinder Is Rolling Out A New Super-Like Feature For Users With No Chill

Let’s talk about online dating for a second, OK? I have active accounts on Tinder, OK Cupid, Hinge and Coffee Meet Bagel (ugh, I hate this last one and its stupid name, so much I’m deleting it from my phone as soon as I’m done writing this post), but these days I mostly stick to… More »


Cheat Sheet: 10 Responses For When Someone Asks You If You’re Pregnant (And You’re Not)

I would not consider myself any great expert in etiquette, but one thing I know never to do is to ask a woman if she is pregnant. There is literally no reason to ever do this. For starters, it’s none of your business what is going on with anyone else’s womb. If they want you to… More »


Dater X: Life Support

It’s been a hell of a week. More »


True Story: My Tweet About An OKCupid Creep Went Viral (And The Internet Thinks I Should Date Him)

Burn everything. More »


Make It Stop: “My Just-Dumped Friend Needs More Of My Time Than I Can Give”

Ah, the recently dumped. Yes, they need lots of love. Yes, they need lots of attention. No, the heartbroken person can’t dominate your schedule for the foreseeable future. More »


Emily Postmodern: How To Behave When Meeting The Parents Of Someone You Maybe-Might Love

Just be polite. You know how to do that, right? More »


Dater X: The First Big Fight

It was bound to happen. More »


Ashley Madison Had 70,000 Bots Enticing Men With Messages Like “Hi”

Last week, data journalist Annalee Newitz analyzed the original data dump from cheating site Ashley Madison for Gizmodo and proposed that there were almost no real women who were active on the site. Newitz discovered that’s not exactly true, thanks to a second data dump of Ashley Madison’s source code. There were real,More »


1 ... 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 ... 379