relationships

Apartment Hunting Isn’t All That Different From Looking For Love

Cohabitation Tips
How to survive moving in together. Read More »
To Pee Or Not To Pee...
...specifically in the shower. Do you? Read More »
Living Alone Rocks
Seven things you'll miss out on by not living alone at least once! Read More »
Don't Cohabitate!
John DeVore doesn't believe in living together. Read More »

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The old saying goes, you’re either looking for a man, an apartment or a job. In NYC, it often tends to be two out of three. “The Dating Game: Finding The Perfect Apartment” breaks down the stats and points out the similarities between apartment hunting and dude hunting. Oh how similar they are. They both involve a lot of looking and a non-negotiable checklist. There’s a reason I rent. Keep reading »

The 6 Types Of Wedding Dates

There is a reason why I prefer to go to weddings solo — for fear that I will bring numbers one through five as my date. I enjoy bringing my self respect as my plus one and dancing until I no longer have any. [Buzzfeed]

Artwork by Christiann MacAuley. You can see more of her work on stickycomics.com. Follow her on Twitter at @stickycomics.

8 Mistakes Every Bridesmaid Should Avoid

It’s an honor to stand up in a friend’s wedding, and along with that recognition comes a range of responsibilities — but just how far do those responsibilities stretch? Where’s the line between helpful and overbearing, between celebrating and insulting? When it comes to wedding dos and don’ts, the boundaries aren’t always clear. If you plan to be a bridesmaid any time soon, avoid these common blunders to maintain your integrity and make sure your friend feels supported on her big day. Read more…

16 Things You Hate About Your Body That Men Love

Hate your hips? Whether they are too flabby, too bony, too narrow, too wide or otherwise unpleasant to your eyes, chances are, most men find them attractive. Women waste an immeasurable amount of time sweating about body parts that men find sexy in any number of physical states. Check out this list to find out why you should learn to love your so-called flaws after all.

1. Feet.  Many men secretly love women’s feet. They don’t even pay attention to the usual body parts that you may be squeamish about. Read more …

7 Ways Of Saying Sorry That Are Actually Worse Than Saying Nothing At All

Not Sorry
Zooey isn't apologizing for being a girly-girl. Read More »
Apology Refused
Jessica Simpson photo
Jessica Simpson tells Oprah she'll never forgive John Mayer. Read More »
Tracy's Apology
tracy morgan photo
Tracy Morgan apologized and says he's actually for gay marriage. Read More »

Like Ruben Studdard sang so lovingly in “I’m Sorry (2004)” — guys, I love that song — there’s a lot of things we have to apologize for to our loved ones. But some of us understand the finesse of a good apology better than others. And so often, we ladies get particularly terrible apologies from the dudes in our lives.

After the jump, horrible, annoying apologies we’ve gotten. And add your worst apologies in the comments! Keep reading »

Yo, Relationship Advice Is Now Available On Tumblr

"Savage U" Sex Advice
This sex advice from "Savage U" is great. Read More »
Crotch Sniffer?
The weirdest relationship advice question we've ever seen. Read More »

I feel a responsibility to let you know when I spend a stupid amount of time on any given Tumblr. Today, I have dedicated myself to Yo, Should I Dump This Asshole? It’s pretty self explanatory: people ask if they should dump the asshole they’re dating and Yo responds. I’ve compiled a few of my favorites here. The guy who likes Ayn Rand but gives good BJs? Yo says dump. Not so sure I agree. The guy who doesn’t like trees or sun? DUMP FOR SURE. The guy who’s convinced he’s a vampire? Who’s asking? I can’t even. I wish this site was around when I went out with the guy who said all he needed in life was the company of his cat. I would have loved to see Yo’s response. Obviously, I dumped this man. I hate cats. [The Hairpin]

The 8 Degrees Of Singlehood

Secret Single Behavior
The 20 things we're kind of ashamed that we do when we're alone. Read More »
Single & Lovin' It!
30 things we love about being solo. Read More »

“So … are you single?” It’s a question we expect people to have one of two answers to: Yes, or no. You’re either single or you’re not.

But what about all the various degrees of singlehood? Some single people I know haven’t been on a date in years; others are on a date every night; still others haven’t officially declared themselves paired off, but spend most of their free time with the same person. Where do you fall on the spectrum? Keep reading »

Girl Talk: Confessions Of A Serial Friend Dumper

Toxic Friendships
15 toxic friends you need to dump ASAP. Read More »
New Vs. Old Friends
The allure of new friendships over old ones. Read More »
College Friendships
campus confidential
Friendships at college aren't about having one big clique. Read More »

Halfway through my freshman year of high school, I found myself two states away from my childhood home of Seattle. I was sure my new school would offer an opportunity to shed my former identity as a shy, socially-inept girl and reinvent myself as the outgoing, popular girl that I knew was hiding somewhere inside. Sadly, that girl never surfaced. I was just as shy in California as I was in Washington, and my reinvention wasn’t coming as easily as I’d hoped.

After a few awkward weeks of eating lunch in the library, I met Erica*. We connected instantly and after only a few weeks, we were inseparable. We shared a love of science fiction, which we indulged by penning deliciously awful fan fiction after school. We talked for hours about everything from our Jedi alter egos to our difficult family lives. We drooled over boys together and dished gossip without inhibition. I knew Erica inside and out, as she did me.

In short, our bond was everything a friendship should be.

Two years later, I dumped her. Keep reading »

Does His Single Facebook Status Matter?

We have been dating for two years now, already talking about marriage. A year ago I changed my facebook relationship status into “in the relationship.” He didn’t. He is still single in Facebook. I never brought this up as it is sounds childish. Two months ago I changed mine into “single.” I figured why would I when he doesn’t care about these stuff.

Is this so immature that I want everyone in the world to know that we are in love? Read more …

This Guy Is Ready For Real True Love

Tree Love
Girl makes out with a tree! Watch »

Comedian Greg Barris and SNL digital short filmmaker Adam Epstein teamed up to make a video about real true love. And by real true love, they mean a passionate relationship with a puppet. God, there’s so much existential truth in this video. [You Tube]