Married for 21 years and glad of it. We live in a very small town, 2 bars, 1 gas station and a grocery store. Life is good. Our garden gives us fresh veggies including a patch of asparagus and some fruit trees. She has a rose garden with a tall fence to keep out the deer. We build a tall planter to grow strawberries the first year, but the dear ate them. We now grow daffodils there and call it the deer feeder. No kids, so we have 3 cats to dote on. She's had cancer twice. We count each day as a bonus.