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deej
Most Recent Login: January 8, 2009
Most Recent Comment: June 4, 2009
Join Date: November 26, 2008
Contact: Private Message, Yahoo!
Location: Chicago
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Occupation: I write stuff

comments by deej: 14 (view all)

  • Jun 04, 2009: In Mind Of Man: Why Self-Love Is Sex’s Sexiest Secret: "So, this touches on my personal "kink". I love masturbation - alone, watching someone, doing it to someone, having it done to me. Fast & furious or slow & leisurely. Leading up to much-more-involved..."
  • Mar 28, 2009: In Girl Talk: Friends With Benefits? I Don't Think So: "In my experience, it's the same as any other relationship dynamic. Sometimes things can get a little rough; an argument, communication issues, whatever. Emotions aren't static and feelings can change,..."
  • Feb 17, 2009: In Doin' It With Dr. V: Anal Sex: "My wife was my first, and I hers. I guess a previous partner tried it on her but did everything wrong. We did it as an experiment, the right way, and it was actually amazing! She came really hard, and..."
  • Dec 14, 2008: In Romantic Gestures: What Makes Us Gag & What's Truly Heartwarming: "From a feminist gentleman: If you ever NOT allow me to open a door for you when we are entering a very public (read: crowded) building, going to work/social event, nice restaurant, theater/symphony,..."
  • Dec 13, 2008: In 30 Things Men Love That Women Just Don't Understand: "Just an FYI for everyone: Skidmarks from spinning tires, burnouts, etc. Not underwear stains. Ick."

Bio

Barely over 40 but look like I just graduated college; open relationship marriage; I like to dress well, but have tattoos and longer hair; I'm a deep skeptic and often think too much; definitely a pleasure seeker; I take pride in being well-mannered and a perfect gentleman; I'm a mild political junkie; I am a Pastafarian seeking an end to Prohibition; I am hoping to foster some life-long relationships after years of being a nomad.

Personal Info

Interests Sex, wine, women, song, sex, politics, ask me
Activities

Wine!  Cycling, reading, writing, conversations, pointing out fallacies of logic everywhere.

Fave Designers
Fave Stores
Fave Websites
Fave Music The Cult. FTW. Start there and then we can dissect the 50GB of music I have and the other 500GB I want.
Fave TV Shows

Big West Wing fan.  Weeds.  I’m sure there are a few others.

Fave Movies

Dances With Wolves, The Last Samurai, Shawshank Redemption, Fight Club, Untamed Heart, The Endless Summer I & II, Lord Of The Rings (all), many more…

Fave Magazines

Playboy, Scientific American

Fave Books

The Tao Of Pooh, The Te Of Piglet, Bury My Heart At Wounded Knee, Dune (all), The Ethical Slut, tons more…

Fave Quotes

The third rate mind is only happy when it is thinking with the majority.  The second rate mind is only happy when it is thinking with the minority.  The first rate mind is only happy when it is thinking.
A.A. Milne

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