Would You Do It In Public?

skywalk
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 11:08 am: [report]

When I was younger I loved having sex in the dark anywhere, but now that I’m 37 I keep it underwraps

CheeeeEEEEse
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 11:14 am: [report]

I want to meet the second from the bottom.

BenJamn
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 11:14 am: [report]

Proud member of the mile high club. Thank you. Thank you.

cattgirl813
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 11:20 am: [report]

This article made me smile as I remembered a couple of encounters.  One was lying across a set of curved monkey bars (worth the discomfort), and the other was on a chaise loung on the third floor terrace of the Ren Cen overlooking the Detroit River.  Good times.  My boyfriend and I were young and dumb at the time, but I’d never risk it now - especially with sex offender registry laws on the books.  A daring romp outside isn’t worth a lifelong scarlet letter.

amorsalado
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 11:23 am: [report]

When I lived in Florida my ex and I had sex in public all the time—numerous different beaches across the state.  We did it on the lifeguard stand once, but that was rather painful, so after that we just stuck to the sand with a quick skinny dip after.

Humble Bee
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 11:23 am: [report]

I don’t even want to get started, I used to be so bad….. but yes, I’ve done it in public, many times..

catie
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 11:29 am: [report]

I did it in the back yard of the catering hall of my best friend’s wedding on a lawn chair - all while the bride cut the cake.

Perceptible
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 11:32 am: [report]

In the stairwell at a NYC holiday party. No one knew.

In a car behind a busy fire department during a rain storm. That was cool.

In a car behind an office building (which was closed, it was a Sunday afternoon) and were approached by security just as we were putting ourselves back together.

I really want to join the mile high club and have been trying to convince my bf.

My sister and her then fiance did it in the dressing room at Old Navy. (That’s probably more than I wanted to know about my sister, but whatevs.)

bogart4017
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 11:39 am: [report]

As a teenager, under the bleachers, off of the football field. Not much choice if your parents never go out.

unbounded
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 11:46 am: [report]

Several times in a car, in a bathroom while friends were waiting for us, in a public park, and in a stairwell at a hotel.  All with the same guy….while the relationship didn’t work, he was far and away the best sex I’ve ever had.  Sigh…

skywalk
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 11:48 am: [report]

@unbounded:  the best sex usually isn’t the best relationship, I’ll take the GREAT sex I have with my husband over a lousy/crazy/or who knows relationship over the best sex any day, but at least we can look back and smile.

megly
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 11:51 am: [report]

In the vinyl room of a local record store

Jenn27549
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 11:54 am: [report]

I totally would but my husband never would.  Closest I’ve ever some is multiple encounters in cars parked in public places when I was younger.

amylou
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 12:00 pm: [report]

in the car, college elevator, roof of my parents’ house, bar bathroom, dressing room…

amylou
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 12:01 pm: [report]

deserted beaches too!

spatula
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 12:28 pm: [report]

Target fitting room, public shower at a campground, several frat parties while in college. Not to sound like a total whore or anything

SCRMOM
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 12:32 pm: [report]

@bogart417: That’s why basements were invented!

To the question asked:  yes, many times in many different places with the majority being in college since I lived in a triple dorm room and my (now) husband lived in a quad dorm room.

majicksand
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 01:26 pm: [report]

Multiple cars (who hasn’t?), bathroom at a truck stop (almost got arrested), and the most daring… my parents couch while they were upstairs sleeping.  I’d rather face a swat team than my dad any day!

bethlynn00
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 02:24 pm: [report]

I think everyone has done it in a car, at least once.  I’ve done it in several parks, the most embarrassing was when some teenagers decided to ride their bikes along the path we were on and stopped and watched, as my boyfriend keep trying to shoo them away, but that didn’t stop us from going at it. Otherwise I haven’t done it anywhere else public and now that I’m older I really no longer have the desire too.

coriannen
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 03:20 pm: [report]

The car is an obvious one, in the park mid-day, the beach, and in the back of my parents’ mini-van on a road trip- with them driving. How they didn’t know is beyond me.

dandrean
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 04:31 pm: [report]

@coriannen your parents probably DID know.
do you think you owuld have been more embarrased if you knew they knew, or if they actually caught you?

kayti
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 04:43 pm: [report]

On a playground (the slide was a fun part), in a park, several cars in broad daylight.

I’ve wanted an SLC Punk moment at a good show, but the two times that I was with someone I’d actually do in public and there was a good opportunity for it, they looked at me like I was nuts. :|

majicksand
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 04:43 pm: [report]

And the woods.  I forgot the woods.

SCRMOM
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 04:45 pm: [report]

@majicksand: I had a really bad experience with mosquitoes when we had sex in the woods.

SCRMOM
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 04:51 pm: [report]

Yikes, I should clarify!  “I had a really bad experience with mosquitoes when I had sex in the woods with my boyfriend.”

NaomiK
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 08:09 pm: [report]

My husband and I met in theater class @ college. Aside from the run of the mill outside in the woods/car/etc. we had this goal to have sex in every building on campus. We almost made it ; ). Most daring… We had sex on the stage and on a prop gurney twice after everyone had gone home. We found out later that another couple in the class had had sex in the lighting booth. I only hope we weren’t there at the same time.

MissChaotic
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 08:35 pm: [report]

Backseat of a car during a roadtrip. Wendy’s parking lot, et al. Kind of thrilling. Also, high school parking lot and construction zones.

danila
wrote on October 9 2009 @ 08:56 pm: [report]

In the ice room of the chemistry lab on campus. In the stairwell of the student union.

druse
wrote on October 10 2009 @ 08:46 am: [report]

Upstairs in the college chapel - late at night.
The guard came around, I thought I would have a heart attack when he flicked his flashlight through the window in the door across us.  However, he just walked on.  I guess he got an eyeful! But my boyfriend never noticed.  I guess he was preoccupied.
We tried the beach - too many mosquitos - just nasty. I have no idea how anyone can have a romp-on-the-beach.
Those were the days, though.  No fear of “sex offender registry” or the like. Just good clean fun!

majicksand
wrote on October 10 2009 @ 09:03 am: [report]

Construction sites.  How could I forget that?

bethany356
wrote on October 10 2009 @ 01:17 pm: [report]

I lost my virginity in my high school, hooked up at the park at Keesler Air Force Base, in a car at the boat launch at Lake Opechee… inLake Opechee… Just to name a few…

majicksand
wrote on October 10 2009 @ 01:54 pm: [report]

The pool in my parents’ backyard.  Man, you guys are reminding me about all sorts of things I’d forgotten.

shesatwat
wrote on October 10 2009 @ 06:21 pm: [report]

I have to admit, there is something incredibly, amazingly arousing about doing the deed in public. My current boyfriend was actually reluctant at first but he came around.
My list with current beau:

- A glass hotel elevator at 3am

- A balcony facing a busy street (this was the closest to being an exhibitionist I have been; a car passed very slowly, turned around and did another two drive bys)

- A balcony facing a not-so busy street

- The courtyard of dinner event held by the Dean of my former university

- The hood of my car (in a parking garage, in a state park, in the parking lot of a bar and many, many random places where we pulled off on road trips)

- Does road head count if it is in a convertible with the top down?

@kayti - Totally know what you mean. When I was younger and went to shows I tried so hard to coerce various boyfriends into it.

babylaceface
wrote on October 11 2009 @ 01:46 am: [report]

the movie theater (forgetting sarah marshall), a golf course, the park in my neighborhood, a couple public bathrooms, parked on the side of the freeway, one time in my old high school parking lot, actually a couple parking lots durring the day, my parents pool and my boyfriend’s pool, the bench at a playground, car obviously, the couch outside my parents bedroom (they were watching tv), o this one is interesting this strange closet at the movie theater. haha geez is exhibitionist the right term?

sic.itur.ad.astra
wrote on October 11 2009 @ 12:17 pm: [report]

in the hot tub in the middle of my apartment complex. in my car various places around town. my craziest was probably when i worked at a movie theater, i had a threesome while we were cleaning a theater after a show.

Sparkknock
wrote on October 11 2009 @ 12:36 pm: [report]

It’s been a few years and no longer keep in contact
with this bunch, so probably safe to reveal that my
then girlfriend called me over with more eats and booze
for her sister, Amber’s bachelorette party. I thought
I was dreaming when she suggested her sister ‘get me off’
in front of 18 of her friends, just this once, just
for laughs. I obliged, seated amongst the group, 6
of the partiers pleasured my tool until I couldn’t
hold out any longer. Amber, reaching around from behind
me, tried her hand at it. I made her look good, cuz it
only took about 20 strokes of her tiny soft little hand
to touch off the deepest most intense orgasm I think
I’ve ever had. I filled her other cupped hand with cum,
but still made quite a mess for everyone. I thanked my g/f
many times, this same way, for allowing me this ‘favor’.

bronzebuttercup
wrote on October 11 2009 @ 03:32 pm: [report]

Cars, a dozen times.
Dug-out, outfield, church parking lot.

Bond Girl
wrote on October 11 2009 @ 05:33 pm: [report]

The car a couple times, the bathroom, the balcony, the breakroom during working hours (luckily we didn’t get caught), the boss’ desk (not with the boss), the couch with one of his drunken roomates passed out on the other couch a few feet away….mmm fun times.

spanishbutterfly
wrote on October 12 2009 @ 02:58 pm: [report]

on the porch in a rockin chair (while my mom was 3 doors dwn).. in the laundrymat bathroom, in the emergency room while i was waiting for the doctor to see me…in the car.. at work while on lunch break in the empty exam rooms..on top of the hood of my bf’s car in the rain parked next to the fire house.. in a furniture store in the wharehouse.. in the park ..on the sofa while my sister sat on the fronts steps makin sure no one walked in .. on the kitchen stairs of my bf’s moms house an her sofa… Memories lol

redheadedhoney
wrote on October 12 2009 @ 03:56 pm: [report]

I have been a fan of public sex since I was a teenager. My h.s. boyfriend and I had sex in a porta-potty at a hometown festival and had sex in the percussion room of our h.s. band room. I’ve done it in cars a LOT, had sex in a pool with my parents nearby, at a party where it was 6 girls taking turns on one guy, had sex with another friend lying in bed with us (no 3-some), etc. I love public sex.

Midnight
wrote on October 12 2009 @ 09:30 pm: [report]

Embarrassing to admit but I have quite a few times.  There was a school dance where me and my then boyfriend started getting frisky and moved it outside to the side lawn.  There are a few parks, few cars, a small wooded area, a pasture, and a swimming pool.

Red_Lady
wrote on October 13 2009 @ 11:44 am: [report]

@redheadedhoney: A porta-potty?!?  Like, the honey-bucket variety, where I have to take a deep breath before I go in b/c it’s so disgusting in there I don’t even want to breath?  Or is there a nicer kind that I’m unaware of? 

Haven’t had too much public sex: just the backseat of a car, and a hot-tub on the (completely open) deck of a ground-floor hotel room.  Would a in a tent at a public campground, surrounded by other tents and RVs count?

ashleye
wrote on October 14 2009 @ 04:39 pm: [report]

Cars many times, hot tub, funniest one…college dorm laundry room…there was a big glass window and my boyfriend shut the blinds but left the door wide open so anyone walking by could see or hear. It was midday also so everyone was out. The best time was on a park picnic table. It started raining and we didn’t even notice at first, it just made it more romantic actually if sex in public can be romantic. Not really public, but my sister’s living room(no one was home) and the blinds were open slightly and the landscaper started watching…kinda creepy, but I had to laugh when all my boyfriend said was “move along” and he went about his business.

ksdancer
wrote on October 15 2009 @ 11:34 am: [report]

Woods, cars, in the ditch on a country road when a passing car um…didn’t pass but stopped to “watch” before moving on, sitting on my beau while driving down the freeway 80 miles per hour past the Border Patrol checkpoint, on the dance floor at a gay club…............

jackofhearts
wrote on October 15 2009 @ 11:37 am: [report]

I love outdoor/public sex. A few memorable moments come to mind:
-the mezzanine of a club (no one else was there until 2 security guards turned up… yes while we were still at it)
-a car
-a field in the countryside on a beautiful summer’s day after a bottle of champagne and some very good quality weed
- The back of a taxi (received oral sex)
-The top tier of a London double decker bus (gave oral sex)
-My parents rec room. They thought we were playing table tennis.. well, there were balls involved
-A nature reserve near my boyf’s parents house (cold and dark..)
-The glass-walled library of a resort I staying in for boyf’s brothers wedding

Still have to try mile high, mile long, sea, beach, swimming pool.

Looking forward to them all.

xx

99girl
wrote on October 15 2009 @ 02:23 pm: [report]

Turnpike
Back porches
Golf course at time share in florida
Backyard in our garden
Parking garage at work … got busted.
Supply closet at work
Company truck after delivering gifts to needy children
Pool
In dorm room while BF’s roommate was sleeping (I hope!)
I know I am blanking on some!

99girl
wrote on October 15 2009 @ 02:26 pm: [report]

And the beach! Forgot that one.

Tom_Cody
wrote on October 15 2009 @ 06:00 pm: [report]

My girlfriend and I “get off” on doing it in public, and never miss an opportunity for public sex.  About a year ago, we were driving around and decided we couldn’t wait to get our hands on each other.  We pulled into the local college parking lot, parked way at the back, so we figured we were pretty safe.  With all the kissing and touching, it wasn’t long before our clothes were off, I was on my back and she was on top (see favorite sex positions) and in total control.  Things were going hot and heavy, the radio was on and she was grinding full steam to the beat…and we never saw or heard the security guard come up to the truck.  Nor do we know how long he stood there, or how much he saw, but we’re sure he got more than an eyefull.  Anyways, he tapped on the window, which was opened a bit, and when we both looked up at him, he simply looked at my girlfriend and asked, “Ma’am, are you here on your own free will?”  My girlfriend nodded yes and said, “uh-huh”, to which he simply replied, “OK, thank you ma’am”, and walked away.  Of course, we breathed a sigh of relief to not get arrested, we watched him get further away from the truck, and then we had some of the best sex we’ve ever had.

CarSexGirls
wrote on October 15 2009 @ 07:22 pm: [report]

My (now deceased, unfortunately) g/f lived near an elementary school. We hopped on the merry-go-round, and, after getting “plugged in”, proceeded to push off the MGR. So, we di it up and down, round and round! It was quite a cool sensation, until, just as I was getting ready to finish, someone got in their car in the parking lot 50-60 yards away and turned on their headlamps on us! we went flat, and the MGR slowly ground to a halt with our backsides pointing at the headlamps! Fortunately, they drove off in time. I don’t know if they saw us or not…they didn’t say or do anything to acknowledge us, so we just resumed where we left off. A previous g/f and I got it on in her parents’ pool. She sat on the shelf/bench, and we…ooops, this isn’t Penthouse, is it? A gentleman should never kiss and tell…but it is fun to reminisce, now that she is gone…

n75nva
wrote on October 15 2009 @ 07:52 pm: [report]

In a church parking lot. hee hee hee!

NoSleepTillBK
wrote on October 16 2009 @ 02:11 am: [report]

office sex during work hours is definitely on my list! Do find that the lads seem to be a bit shy about it, but no matter.

Queen Frostine
wrote on October 16 2009 @ 10:57 am: [report]

Local cemetery. It’s nice, peaceful, shady and there’s plenty of soft grassy spots.

tinywonder
wrote on October 16 2009 @ 10:18 pm: [report]

Great comments…so many things I had forgotten about
in a car, multiple times, multiple places
side of the road (out of the car)
on the pull-out couch outside my dad’s room
on the beach
on a boat in the middle of a lake
in the lake mid-day
phone booth in the dorms(somewhat unsuccessfully)
my favorite: on a tree by a waterfall

tttongue_tied
wrote on October 17 2009 @ 12:34 pm: [report]

and this is why i hate being celibate.

CJ1432
wrote on October 17 2009 @ 11:55 pm: [report]

Ah, the high school and early college days….in the car, in the pool, behind the garage, in a combine in the middle of a corn field, the bottom of hill when a full fledged keg party was going on at the top.

Tom_Cody
wrote on October 23 2009 @ 10:29 am: [report]

So, inspired by this article, my girlfriend and I made a date to celebrate our 1 year anniversary, meeting at exactly the same place, and going to the same restaurant (Montana’s) for dinner.  When the day came, we arrived in seperate cars, both of us coming from our respective work places, and when we got there, I was still in my uniform and needed to change, she also had her work clothes and decided to do the same…and in our respective cars to boot.  I finished first, and as soon as I had my shoes on, ran over to her truck and jumped into the backseat with her.  Of course, we immediately started making out, and before long, neither of us had any clothes on at all.  After about 15 minutes, with all the windows completely fogged up, except the windshield, we noticed a few of the staff members from Montana’s standing on the outdoor patio, and one of them was pointing directly at us, obviously indicating to the others what was going on.  A few of the staff members brought their hands to their mouths, and we immediately knew we’d been busted.  Although my girlfriend was a little embarassed, we still went in for our dinner, we laughed it up all evening, and it was amazing how much attention we got that night from the staff.  Any wonder why??