What’s The Craziest Thing You’ve Done To Win A Guy Back?

HitOrMissJudy
wrote on March 9 2009 @ 01:40 pm: [report]

That was the most ridiculous episode. Was Belle the only one who didn’t guess from jump who her mysterious client was? Please. He would’ve had to have given a credit card number.

To answer your question, the most idiotic, ridiculous thing I’ve ever done to win back a guy was sleep with his roommate/best friend. This backfired even more spectacularly than you’d ever guess. Sigh.

Arty
wrote on March 9 2009 @ 01:58 pm: [report]

Been contemplating fooling around with his new girlfriend’s ex, but that’s not even in the planning stages yet.

Also, I think it’s less “get him back” and more “revenge” for finding a rebound first.

cattgirl813
wrote on March 9 2009 @ 02:19 pm: [report]

I can’t think of anything out of the ordinary I’ve done to win a guy back - just the usual break up and get back together nonsense.  My ex-husband, however, thought it would be a good idea to send me a dozen long stemmed red roses at work - complete with a card proclaiming his love for “my wife from your husband” - shortly after I’d filed for divorce.  I found out he’d been cheating on me the entire two years we’d been together.  With at least two other women.  He’d even proposed to one of them.  And it was the first time he’d ever sent me flowers.  He also, in an attempt to win my sympathy, told me he’d been hospitalized for “stress” and joined Alcoholics for Christ.  I gave away the roses, told him to eat right & exercise, wished him godspeed with those 12 steps, and proceeded with the divorce.

EastCoastMale
wrote on March 9 2009 @ 02:25 pm: [report]

@Miss

I dont even consider that revenge though IF you are just chosing some guy to rebound with purely for that reason because you are reflecting something upon yourself in order to get revenge on him. I have a sneaking suspicion that men dont consider it nearly as sweet of a revenge if you do something like that because sometimes, not always, they are not dealing with as much emotion but more a physical attraction when it comes to moving on to a different person. Especially chosing his ex, I would just get a hottie that you have some interest in so that way he cant think to himself “well atleast my current boo had the guy she is hooking up with now so there arent any lingering questions”. Someone totally new to everyone would cause much more of a stir if thats your aim, but I think you shouldnt even get into the whole rebound first thing…..then again Im not your father giving advice, someone who just butts in sometimes lol.

Arty
wrote on March 9 2009 @ 02:43 pm: [report]

@ECM
It would cause a stir, because my ex’s new girl’s ex is a minor celebrity and their relationship was a complete secret, and apparently (although I’m hearing this from my ex who heard it from the girl) it ended very badly. And my ex met the new girl through her ex—they’re really good friends.

Although it’s been several months now so I’m not sure “rebound” still fits.

And I should just find someone else to hook up with and not stimulate drama. Fancy coming to visit NOVA? /hint

sklut
wrote on March 9 2009 @ 02:58 pm: [report]

STUPIDEST EPISODE EVERRRRR

I’m also annoyed with the curly puffs Belle does at the bottom of her hair lately when she goes to a job. It’s really ugly. Ben is really hot though, there’s a few crazy things I would do to him right now.

I’ve never really done anything crazy I guess, once I let them go or they let me go that’s kind of it. I don’t like to dwell on the past. I move on and if they come back I have hot crazy sex with them and then continue to move on, never date the same person twice. Sex with an ex is always amazing. Why is that? I think I might go look up some ex’s right now…

BeeGirl
wrote on March 9 2009 @ 04:57 pm: [report]

MAJOR SPOILER, FRISKY! Not cool. Not cool at all.

Tamara
wrote on March 9 2009 @ 07:52 pm: [report]

I waited, I argued and I gave him space. That’s about the it, he came to me in due time and we’re together now.

vanya
wrote on March 9 2009 @ 09:33 pm: [report]

It wasn’t an intentional effort to win him back on my part, I was just being open with him about my feelings,  but I told a college boyfriend who broke up with me that I wished him all the best, and that I hoped he’d find someone he was crazy in love with because he deserved to have that, and he called me awhile later to get back together.

Chelle
wrote on March 13 2009 @ 10:40 am: [report]

When I was younger and in a constant make-up break-up cycle with my ex, I would literally beg. Like a little kid begs for candy-“Pleeeeeaase?”. I know it was terrible but you know what? He did the same thing when it was my turn to break up with him. It worked until one day, instead of begging, I had to hide a huge grin because I wanted to leave and was afraid to. He was shocked that I actually left when he broke up with me that very last time.