Thoughts From Guys On Our IM: Doing It & Thinking About Doing It
Posted by: Amelia McDonell-Parry
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2:00PM, Tuesday December 16th 2008
There’s a commonly held belief that men are always thinking about sex. Always. I actually think women think about sex almost as often, though not necessarily in the same ways. But another accepted belief is that dudes would have sex all the time, if given the choice—I wasn’t sure if that was true, so I decided to needle the guys on my IM about these two topics—how often they’d like to do it and how often they’re thinking about doing it. While I wasn’t entirely surprised by their answers, I was fascinated. Find out why, after the jump…
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Arty
wrote on December 16 2008 @ 02:16 pm: [report]
That dude in the photo looks really icky!
EastCoastMale
wrote on December 16 2008 @ 02:46 pm: [report]
Agreed miss, Im straight and I could say if I were female Id have a TRO on him lol. I definite dont think ALL men think about is sex but possibly just more expressive in telling thats what we are thinking about. Some women have just as much of an appetite, some dont…dome men do, some dont. I cant talk much though since I am guilty of being quite ravenous.
Alex V
wrote on December 16 2008 @ 08:36 pm: [report]
Doesn’t change as you get older.
ModestYetWantsIt
wrote on December 19 2008 @ 01:51 pm: [report]
I understand that most guys think about sex, but this is the only reason I’m angry about it. I mean, sometimes I just wish I could find that guy out there that DOESN’T. And I haven’t got used to disappointment yet. Sometimes I get as cruel as to say that they think of us as tools. Some might, but I know that can’t be true for every guy out there. It’s just hard being a woman, and I get frustrated over this petty stuff that men have to think about. Sucks to be a woman..
EastCoastMale
wrote on December 19 2008 @ 01:59 pm: [report]
Modest, I can sympathize even though I dont experience it being a man. I dont think EVERY guy thinks about sex every day though, I just dont. Men think about it yes, just as women do. I wouldnt call sex petty though, even if it is a main factor thats causing you to not come across a decent guy. Some guys might be huge jerks and see women as sex objects, some might not and still think about a lot of sec or some might just think about sex occasionally or on the same level that women do. I know its hard but try not to let a few male nymphos ruin your outlook of the rest of us guys. Trust me, I know its hard being a woman in that I can appreciate what your sex goes through but just know its hard being a man as well.
demi-angel
wrote on January 1 2009 @ 12:18 am: [report]
okay, so I get a guy sees nice legs or a tight ass in line or in a crowd or something and his mind might be distracted for a second or two (can’t say I’m not guilty of it with guys that catch my eye), but I’d like to know if my guy friend’s brain does it every time I walk past or am I about as appealing as a dish towel to them now?
I mean my relationship with them is platonic but when they mentioned something about taking up wrestling it didn’t stop me from me picturing me pinning one to the ground and smiling a very vixen like grin. However the idea was more “How can mess with them?” than any real desire to get him in bed. So is it the same for guys?
Drea2up
wrote on January 1 2009 @ 12:56 am: [report]
I think about sex as often or more than most men. I’m lucky to have found the perfect Man for me. He’s not obsessed with it, and when we get to it he’s excellent at it, but he’s also very loving and fun and happy no matter what we are doing. He’s the perfect package because he’s balanced but he’s definitely got it GOIN ON!
I think it’s just a matter of finding the right match, just like in every other aspect.
XOxo~Drea
saxhipster12
wrote on January 7 2009 @ 02:33 pm: [report]
This has got to be one of my favorite posts. It’s exactly correct. EXACTLY.