The Nookie Know-It-All: Big Lipped Lass
Posted by: Sexpert Lindsay
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9:00AM, Monday May 19th 2008
“I have seriously huge labia and I am way concerned that guys will think my vagina is ugly. Am I being ridiculous?”—Labia Majorly Majora, San Francisco, CA
Yes you are!
Labia majora (the technical name) vary greatly from woman to woman. No two vaginas are alike…which means there are tons of women out there with big labia, small labia, and somewhere in between. Whatever kind you have, rest assured that you are not abnormal.
Just like breasts, a lot of guys actually prefer larger ones to smaller ones. Some men have expressed that a larger labia gives them “more to play with” during oral. Also, an added benefit of a large labia is the ability to climax easier, since there’s a larger amount of blood circulating down there.
At the end of the day, you should be proud of your body, not ashamed. And if you happen to come across someone who would dare insult your beautiful body? Tell them to go and kiss your big, fat labia!
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Biscuit Eater
wrote on August 30 2008 @ 06:57 pm: [report]
In all seriousness, I think one of the best things that you can do is go visit a legitimate nude resort (not a swingers club) at least few times. You will discover—as Ms. Lindsay said—that there are a wide variety in the shapes, sizes and constructions of peoples bodies. My wife and I participated for many years and found that it helped both of us become very comfortable with our own bodies.
Also, I’ve heard many couples comment that “Initially the man was the most interested in visiting, while the woman was usually more reluctant. After a few visits, however, the woman found the experience so freeing that she became even more enthusiastic than the man about going back.”
On a tangent, one of the most fascinating women that I’ve ever met at a nude resort was a lady in her 30’s who had been diagnosed with breast cancer at a young age and had a double mastectomy. She had two small scars where her breasts used to be. Yes, it is an old story about “a great personality”, but in this case it was true. This woman was so enthusiastic about life that everyone—especially the men—thoroughly enjoyed being around her.