The 10 Friends You Need To Make Before You Turn 30
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From the time you were in pre-school and your mom picked your playdates, you’ve been building relationships with people. And sometimes, when you have things in common and get along with one another, you become friends. You might think that you have enough friends in your life, but really, can you ever have too many? Plus, you never know when you’re going to need a hand saw, so you better have someone in your cell phone who owns one.
1. The Style Guru
Everyone needs someone who can help them figure out which dress is appropriate “black-tie optional” weddings, and whether you can get away with wearing a green sweater with a red belt. (The answer to the latter is “probably not,” unless you are a Christmas Elf.)
2. The Mr./Ms. Fix-it
You bought a new bike online, but the instructions for putting it together appear to be written in a language you do not speak. It’s time to call the friend who has a knack for building things and owns all the right tools.
3. The Good Time Gal
If you’re feeling antsy with nothing to do on a Friday night, call this friend, who is generally up for doing anything at any time. She’ll cook up plans that involve dancing on banquets or singing Madonna’s “Like A Prayer” in the time it takes you to change out of your work clothes and slap on a fresh coat of mascara.
4. The Health Nut
During the times when you suddenly decide to start working out or eating food other than take-out and delicacies from the frozen-food aisle, it’s good to have someone who reads every health and fitness magazine and loves to dispense instructions for proper squat form and pass along recipes for protein-rich meals.
5. The Ear
You had a sucky day at work and hate everything in your closet. What do you do? Call the friend who will calmly listen to all of your problems and then, at the appropriate time, give you a few pearls of wisdom.
6. The Do-it-herselfer
Hemming vintage dresses or whipping up a crème brûlée might not come naturally to you, but with the help of a skillful friend, you’ll develop new talents in no time.
7. The Culture Guru
If you like the idea of going to see that new up-and-coming band perform, befriend someone who knows who’s playing and what exhibits are on display.
8. The Healthcare Professional
Make friends with a doctor or nurse. Then, when you wake up with ginormous swollen glands, you won’t have to wait for an appointment to get medicine to cure what ails you.
9. The Legal Adviser
We all make mistakes. A need for speed can lead to you getting pulled over, and a lively party might end with a noise violation. If you have a friend who’s a lawyer, at least you won’t be alone when you have to appear in front of a judge.
10. The Travel Buddy
There are those who like to stay in the same place and find solace in their homes. And there are others who need to get out and explore the world. If you’ve caught the travel bug, find a friend who has it, too. It’s way more fun (and much safer) when you share adventures with someone else.
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ClatieK
[report]wrote on September 22 2008 @ 08:59 pm:
An excellent list. May I add to that: Ms. Etiquette, the one who can tell you when to bring a hostess gift, the difference between formal and black tie, and where to go with your in-laws for brunch.
Diane
[report]wrote on September 25 2008 @ 10:26 am:
The “gay” friend is conspicuously absent from this article. I think everyone needs a gay friend, they make things so much fun. The gay friend alone could do the work of friends 1,5,8,10.
Simosa
[report]wrote on September 25 2008 @ 10:38 am:
good point Diane! everyone needs a gay friend. Question is...do we need a lesbian friend?
lilo
[report]wrote on September 25 2008 @ 10:47 am:
@Diane: I think any of the friends above could also be gay/lesbian.
Chris
[report]wrote on September 25 2008 @ 07:52 pm:
Great way to use people to selfishly motivate your weak spots. What a loser. Learn to be self supportive first and forget these “Friends” you’ll only “use” in the long run.
Wendy
[report]wrote on September 26 2008 @ 09:40 am:
Where is #6?
oogabooga
[report]wrote on September 26 2008 @ 10:55 am:
@ Chris - This isn’t about using people, it’s about playing off each others strengths and skills. Friends don’t mind when friends ask for favors.
Suz
[report]wrote on September 30 2008 @ 06:28 pm:
Why can’t you just have a few friends who fill all those shoes?
all in one
[report]wrote on October 15 2008 @ 02:51 pm:
why is this article assuming that you can’t do any of those things yourself, and there for need a “friend” to do it for you? why would i be thirty, unable to cook, watch out for my own health, dress my self appropriately, or to0o scared to take a vaca alone. if im thirty and i can’t do aleast 7 of the above by myself- i feel as if there is a problem… as in being to0o dependent on others. its nice to have a friend to do things WITH. but the idea that u NEED a friend to do any of the above is insane. a friend should be someone who can do for you, what you can and are willing to do for them in return.
Amelia
[report]wrote on October 15 2008 @ 03:06 pm:
This reminds me—you also need a friend by 30 who will have a sense of humor for you!