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Study: Pain Hurts More If The Person Hurting You Means It

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Study: Pain Hurts More If The Person Hurting You Means It

We poke a lot of fun at silly studies on The Frisky, but occasionally one comes along that’s actually interesting and insightful. Researchers at Harvard University have discovered that our experience of pain depends on whether we think someone caused the pain intentionally. Participants in the study were given electrical shocks and asked to rate the level of pain they experienced. When those participants believed the electrical shock was delivered intentionally rather than on accident, they rated that shock as more painful. This made me think about whether the same thing would apply to emotional pain and not just physical pain. Does it feel worse when someone hurts your feelings on purpose rather than on accident? Think about heartbreak—does it feel worse when the heartbreak happens as a result of someone doing something hurtful, like cheating? [Science Daily]

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wrote on December 22 2008 @ 12:29 pm: [report]

Well, I think for heartbreak it’s different. In the study, people thought that actual, physical pain hurt more when the person meant it. Although physically, that wouldn’t make sense.

But when you’re hurting because of an emotional wound, the fact that someone meant it hurts you more *emotionally* so yeah, it hurts more. Because the intention adds a whole other level. Really, it’s the most important (if not the only) level. If my boyfriend went out and purposefully cheated on me, I’d be devastated. But if it was somehow a true accident and he just fell on this girl and his penis somehow accidentally ended up in her vagina (which obviously would never happen in real life, but for the sake of my point…) I couldn’t be mad at him because he didn’t mean for it to happen.


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