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The slang “natural born freak” is gaining some expert evidence.  Like to be tied up, rode hard, and left wet…or do that to your lover? Well, some scientific theories are swirling that sadomasochism, whether you’re the dom or the sub, is innate. You’re born wanting to get it on with whips, handcuffs, paddles, gags, and leather or for those S&M vegans, pleather.  While sadomasochistic sex has been portrayed in marriage manuals dating all the way back to ancient India, the roots of the desire are still being debated. In 1948, when renowned sex researcher, Alfred Kinsey, claimed nearly 50% of people like to be bitten during sex, scientists were shocked (or at least pretended to be). Ever since, the studies have been pouring in and people have been putting out, telling their deep, dark, dungeony secrets. Sure, some psychoanalysts think that S&M stems from fears of castrations or early childhood shame, but others have a new idea about the sex play. Vivienne Parry, a self-proclaimed S&M loving columnist with a science background [No relation!—Editor], has done her homework and thinks that just like homosexuality, it’s in your genes if you like to get kinky. That it is in fact nature over nurture. Sounds like people are even more bound to bondage than they imagined! [Times]


Tags: studies, homosexuality, research, s&m;, alfred kinsey, genes, psychology


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Kiki T's avatar

Kiki T
wrote on July 15 2008:

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what? i was born to beat men to a pulp? and here I thought it was a talent I honed?


Lady H's avatar

Lady H
wrote on July 17 2008:

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& here I thought I was a FREAK!  Now I know why I enjoy whipping, biting and generally kicking men’s a$$es so much.  It’s in my DNA!!!!!!!!!


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