How Do You Tell An Ex You Want To Have Sex?
Posted by: Catherine Strawn
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2:30PM, Thursday March 12th 2009
I was just, um, checking missed connections on Craigslist (a favorite hobby of mine) and came across this random request for advice. This guy is having dinner with a former girlfriend tonight, and he wants to sleep with her but doesn’t know how to let her know he’d like to have sex but doesn’t want to get back together. “I jsut [sic] want to make sure I’m not sending her mixed messages or something, as I would not want to make it hard or confusing for her.” How kind of sweet that he’s being honest about his intentions and acting totally concerned about leading her on. Why do men like this only exist on the internet?! Hopefully he’s not using this to attract women who think he’s a nice guy though. That would be kind of genius. If you have advice for him, email him. And let us know if he tries to pick you up.
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CheeeeEEEEse
wrote on March 12 2009 @ 06:40 pm: [report]
Is it tacky to ask?
fallenangel915
wrote on March 13 2009 @ 07:07 am: [report]
Well, I wouldn’t be offended (depending on which ex it is), but not everybody is as open-minded (or horny, apparently) as I am…I’d also appreciate his willingness to be up-front about his desire to just have a familiar fugg-buddy. I really can’t offer any advice, though, because I obviously don’t know his ex girlfriend, and I really don’t want to be the one to cause him to be doused in the face with a glass of ice cold water.
wild-ting
wrote on March 13 2009 @ 08:12 am: [report]
If it’s an EX I want to sleep with, I give strong signals (body language, sexual innuendo, touching, etc.), and take him back to my place (or his) and just ‘get busy’. When done, slap him on the ass and say “Thanks babe, it was good doing you again. Catcha later.”
retro chic
wrote on March 13 2009 @ 09:38 am: [report]
I have no advice for a man on this except, to be direct and gentle, but for me…
I just text the intended with nothing but several lines of very staggered “zeros” and “O’s” to form a field of “bubbles” as code for “in the bathtub,” then follow with “please send towel.”
Any clarification is done briefly by phone on his way over. 100% response—no issues.