Sex Advice: Dreaming Of Daniel Craig
Posted by: Sexpert Lindsay
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9:00AM, Wednesday July 30th 2008
Should I be worried that I think about Daniel Craig every time I have sex with my boyfriend?—Boning For Bond, via email
For the most part, fantasies are a healthy part of a sexual relationship. Letting images filter into your mind during sex is natural, and feeling anxiety about them only makes sex less enjoyable. Fantasies can be worrisome when they’re obsessive, or focus on one person. Thinking only of Daniel Craig or an ex when you have sex could signal a bigger problem with you or your relationship.
Remember this: sex should be something you SHARE with your boyfriend. Spend more time with your eyes open, so you realize that you’ve got your very own Daniel Craig on top of you.
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becky
wrote on August 20 2008 @ 01:57 pm: [report]
hi there, ive recently discoverd a side to my fiance i had no clue about. we have been together for 10 months now and this never even crossed my mind. i was doing a little snooping of my own through his emails and found that he was replying to M4M ads on a local free classifieds. none of them had indicated that he had given out his number or home adress but it was very alarming to me. he would mostly try to get the guys to write back to tell him what they would do to them but he used very graphic wording that mostly only gays would know. don’t get me wrong i have nothing agianst gays. his twin in fact just came out about 2 months before i found this. could it be that he isjust curious on what his twin is going through or could he be bi curious? he has no problem with me in bed that’s awesome couldn’t ask for better it’s just our living arrangement isn’t the greatest right now so we don’t get to see each other every day for he lives bout 45 minutes away. should i be concerned? i did comfront him on the matter and he swore to me that it was just a reading fantasy that he had never acted on any of it and i truley believed him but i’m just worried about later on if the reading fantasy turns into a reality fantasy for him how do i handle it?? please let me know what your thinking is on this. i’m use to guys cheating on me with girls but this is a whole new ball game for me. thankyou so much for your time.
LIam
wrote on August 31 2008 @ 06:41 pm: [report]
I’ve read a few of your articles and have to say that it’s amazing how someone can actually earn a living stating the obvious in such long, boring and drawn out ways. You have no insight to anything. It just appears that you’ve watched to many “Sex and the City” episodes. By the way, she sucks as a writer too.