Fashion Slideshow: Rihanna’s Style Transformation

blondie55
wrote on May 16 2009 @ 10:10 am: [report]

I believe an emotional affair is just as serious, if not more than the sexual affair.  Either one is reason for major distrust.  Both are a slippery slope.  Most emotional affairs evolve into the sexual anyway.  It unfortunate that the cheaters have extra dopamine in their chemistry of their brain, and act as if they are high, rendering their decision making skills to zero.
My husband got caught after 2 long years of texting, and secretive phone calls, and some of the content, I got, but not enough.  My heart says they were physical (with another married woman, his co-worker) because he said to her: Do you miss me while he was on a trip out of country, and told her, if the plane went down, “know that I will always surround you, and watch over you”. He didn’t tell me that. He has admitted that she is his soul-mate, and they have so many things in common.  The real sad part is texting 45 times a day, plus phone calls which could start at 4:55 a.m., all through their lunch hour, and his calls to her at 9:00 p.m. as well as on my birthday, holidays, etc. I just found a CD which he made ofher and her twins birthday, and obviously he made a copy for himself. For what? So that he can view it whenever he wants? Pathetic. I’ve been his financial convenience, just paid $2,000 to have his dad buried, who was also a gallavanter, and had 10 children, most of which were outside of his marriage, thereby creating a son, my husband.  My husband was sneaky, deceptive, hid all the phone bills, all being on line.
Be wary, women, if your significant other has an I-phone, blackberry or anything of the sort, and hides his bills on line, where a password is needed. Start looking when that intuitive instinct tells you something is wrong.
I feel in my heart that he definitely crossed the emotional line, alienated me, deprived me of emotional and sexual intimacy (sex 3 times in 2 years).  If when you ask, or hint, he gets extremely defensive, watch out. If a true man has nothing to hide, he should probably stay calm, ask you why you ask, and be an open book, to your scrutinizing his email, voicemails, texts, and credit card receipts. Plus if he has not a penny left after the paycheck, you have to ask yourself why?
I welcome comments and feedback on my situation. My heart and instincts say he’s a physical cheater as well, just havent found the proof yet. What do you think?  Do you relate to any of the above mentioned signs? Let me know!
Blondie

happyb
wrote on May 17 2009 @ 07:48 pm: [report]

she is so beautiful! she always looks fierce. this article should have stayed focused on her(no one needs to know that was the outfit she wore that terrible night) not her ordeal with that jerk and how can you guys can say he “allegedly” hurt her, puhlease!!! the whole world seen those pictures. everybody needs to stop kidding themselves.