Woman Discovers Fiance Is A Porn Star
Posted by: Daniela Guernica
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relationships
8:00AM, Monday June 22nd 2009
Honesty is always the best policy… except when you lead a double life as a porn star. Haylie Hocking thought she knew everything about her fiancé, personal trainer Jason Brake. The 27-year-old bride was just weeks away from her wedding when she discovered Jason spent more time in the buff than getting buff. Haylie’s friend started searching online for a male stripper for the bachelorette party and came across a video of a man who seriously resembled Jason getting raunchy with another woman. Turns out, Jason was a porn star on the side, and wasn’t training people in the gym like he told Haylie. Not surprisingly, Haylie canceled the big day. Hey, nobody wants to introduce Mr. Porno as their husband, at least not without a little warning. [Telegraph]
Oh, but Haylie is not the only one to discover something shocking about her significant other. After the jump, other people whose jaws hit the floor when they found out the truth.
- Finding out your man was in a porno is child’s play compared to what Laurie found out about her husband, John. The two met at Kent State University and dated since 1996. She dealt with his long hours looking at porn and talking in sex chat room. But then a guy he worked with needed a file off of John’s computer, and Laurie gave him the whole laptop. And it was discovered that John was making child pornography. Kind of the worst deal breaker we’ve ever heard. [Marie Claire]
- 20-year-old Maureen was shocked when police came knocking on her door of her Belgium house, demanding to speak to her husband, Rachid. After much questioning, Maureen was told her husband was wanted for taking part in the Madrid train bombings that killed 200 people in 2004. Rachid was eventually found and convicted as a terrorist. Talk about a nasty secret. [Marie Claire]
- On a lighter note, a Chinese man named Fu #&@$% recently discovered that his wife, Wei Jinhua, was a man…after 3 years of marriage. Kind of a delayed response, but apparently the couple never had sex. Fu said he “just wanted someone to take care of [him].” Actually, Fu didn’t even make the discovery—Wei was strip-searched by the police and had to testify in court that she was actually male. Looks like Fu will have to be a big boy now and take care of himself. [The Sun] Hopefully nothing this awful has happened to you. But everybody has a secret. What’s the best (or worst) thing you’ve ever found out about a significant other?
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bogart4017
wrote on June 22 2009 @ 08:49 am: [report]
I found a former fiancee was married with 3 kids…After living with her for three months!!!
maroon
wrote on June 22 2009 @ 10:22 am: [report]
My ex-fiance lied to me, his friends, his family about being in college and finding a job after school. He came out with his nasty secret the day before graduation when he tried to kill himself. How’d he fool us? His classes (which he audited- took the tests and everything without being enrolled) were always after I left for work and ended before I got home, and conveniently he had a night job where he could study and do homework. And, as part of his ruse, told me he had no intention of marrying me- just be with me long enough to keep up the ploy before either running away or committing suicide.
mlyway
wrote on June 22 2009 @ 01:52 pm: [report]
Well it’s a little different…but I found at the same time my boyfriend found out—his mother (who was dying at the time) told my boyfriend that the father he had known for over 20 years was actually not his father. And that his “dad” knew about this for about 18 years. And his “brother”—who people always joked that they didn’t look alike was only his half-brother. And it’s been over 2 years since his mother died and since he found out, and he is still shocked…at least he considers the dad he always knew still his dad.
Yellow
wrote on June 22 2009 @ 04:17 pm: [report]
My grandfather recently passed away, and after his death, I learned about his second wife’s first marriage. She learned that her first husband had been having an affair… by the police showing up on her door step informing her of his arrest for the first degree murder of his mistress. He’s now serving his life in prison. Their kids were 7 and 9. It is quite possibly the worst thing I could imagine finding out about a partner, and I’m in shock that it happened to someone in my (step) family.
badger
wrote on June 22 2009 @ 04:41 pm: [report]
My first wife and I met while we were in college. When we married after graduation I was 28 and she was 23. Some six years later she decided she played for the other team and we divorced. About a year after that I was visiting some college friends (they had gone to high school with my ex) and one of them said “Did she ever talk about her daughter?” Turned out that she had a baby when she was 15 and it was being raised by her sister. Ironically, I’d met the girl and even joked about a certain resemblance to my wife.
mlyway
wrote on June 22 2009 @ 07:22 pm: [report]
@badger It’s surprising that your ex-wife was able to hide it the whole time.
badger
wrote on June 23 2009 @ 08:25 am: [report]
@mlyway: In hindsight there were some clues that I could have picked up on but I wasn’t looking for something like that.
EscapeHatch
wrote on June 23 2009 @ 04:38 pm: [report]
“Finding out your man was in a porno is child’s play…” and then goes on to discuss being caught producing child porn? That’s an interesting choice of words. =/
Dwacon
wrote on June 24 2009 @ 03:33 pm: [report]
Surprises are indigenous to any relationship… but there are little surprises and then…
=-o
Gingee
wrote on June 25 2009 @ 05:53 am: [report]
I would run like the devil was at my heels, mostly for one resaon:
The women who are in those Porn Films surely are damaged in some way, and there is no way I’d ever want to see my younger sisters in that situation.
People tell me the darndest things, and the most recent doozy came from the lips of a young American guy who said that he’d just had a stroll, had viewed the young lasses and wanted to gather all of them and made some porn movies for the cash.
Given that I’m part of a group that tracks serial rapists, that guys comnents made me ill.
Frederica Bimble
wrote on July 14 2009 @ 12:13 pm: [report]
My mother jumped into her third marriage after the death of her second husband. She met the guy at her second husband’s funeral, who told her “(name of deceased) wanted me to take care of you.” My mother “dated” this guy for about 3 months and then they got married. One day, she went to the bank and took most of the insurance money out, so it could be used to pay for a new truck. She left it on the table and went to take a nap. Her husband took the money and ran off. Turns out he was wanted by the FBI for fraud and embezzlement and about 4 or 5 months later, they found him at the crap table in Vegas. He went to the can and my mother didn’t get her money back.