How To Tell If A Guy Is Serious About You
Posted by: Associated Content | Filed in: Relationships
3:00PM, Saturday November 22nd 2008
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He may not have said he loves you yet or even asked to be his girl but you can still tell by little things he does whether he’s really serious about you or not. So, how can you tell if a guy really likes you? Some signs, after the jump…
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EastCoastMale
[report]wrote on November 24 2008 @ 01:12 pm:
After reading this article I am not sure what to even say, just that Im sure some of these aply to some men some of the time lol. Not all men hold back feelings and most I know, even when they are very interested in woman do not mention it to other friends, you have to pay attention to the subtlties of when they are MIA and take private phone calls. I think on this one I will go with, “different strokes for different folks”. =)
juliePS
[report]wrote on November 24 2008 @ 02:01 pm:
These are true, but I just want to add a caveat: there are people who will do these things just to be manipulative and charming. I dated a guy for several months who had all these little signs that he was really into me--he’d say things like “I finally understand what the big deal is about relationships”; he got me my own toothbrush at his place and left me space on his towel rack; charmed the living daylights out of my friends AND my parents, who are notoriously nonplussed; picked up some of my favorite hobbies, etc. But a commitment-phobic misogynist doesn’t change his stripes too readily, and he dumped me at a moment’s notice (literally) because “you’re not good enough for me” and said that I was “controlling” when I cold-busted him lying about a whole bunch of things (everything from saying he was at work when he was really at a strip club to saying he’d only had sex with 4 people when it was really more like 30).
This sounds pretty cynical, and I guess I am, but what I’m getting at is: people who are hellbent on playing the game will do all these things too.
EastCoastMale
[report]wrote on November 24 2008 @ 02:22 pm:
Julie, let me first start off by pointing out something you already know, your better off without him. Like you said, men who are a’holes know what some women will look for as signs of a progressing, stable relationship and will throw those indicators out there to intentionally gain ground towards whatever evil end they are moving. I think, in my opinion mind you, that the signals that a guy really likes you are contextual based on the guy and you, the woman. If he is known to strongly dislike kelly clarkson but next thing you know, you and he arent “straying too far from the sidwalk” then that shows a willingness to enjoy things together. Its like most things in life as far as I believe, context is everything.