Girl Talk: Yeah, I Can Squirt
Posted by: Cara Russell
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12:30PM, Friday January 9th 2009
I’m no sexual stunt woman. I didn’t even know female ejaculation existed until about five years ago. At the time, it seemed like nothing I needed to worry about. You’d probably have to really put in an effort to make something like that happen, I figured. I had more important things to do. But then it happened to a friend of mine quite unexpectedly, as she was doing it with a boy toy, and my interest was piqued.
Back then, I was writing sex toy reviews, so I had various gadgets shipped to me regularly. Whenever one claimed to stimulate the G-spot, I’d grab it and try it with interest, since stimulating the G-spot is crucial to ejaculating for women. While the toys gave me a sort of funny feeling in my G-spot, no waterworks ensued.
I read a book about female ejaculation by sexpert Deborah Sundahl, which had information and exercises. My friends didn’t know much about it, other than it sometimes happened to them. The response I got from those who’d never done it: “Ew.” The book was helpful, but it didn’t help me acheive what had become something of a personal quest.
One day, I was having a session with old faithful, my Hitachi Magic Wand. It has a special attachment to stimulate the G-spot; it’s blue plastic and looks something like Gonzo’s head. But I wasn’t using that; I’d tried it once, and it hadn’t done much for me. I was buzzing around with the wand on low (“high” delivers an abusive pummeling, in my opinion), when I felt something building, like an orgasm was about to hit, only different. I went with it and kept encouraging it with the Wand, until the liquid came squirting out—and I’m talking really squirting. There was some serious cleanup to be done on the bed afterward.
I lay there, surprised and happy, in wonder. My first urge was to text message my news to my best friends. Then I decided that might be a bit gross. I eventually told them anyway, of course.
So, now I’m an ejaculator. Not all the time—and you wouldn’t want it to be all the time. It takes the wet spot to the extreme. I’ve done it with other vibrators, and I’ve done it to a lesser extent with human contact, but it didn’t change my life or anything. Mostly, it’s a fun, funny thing to do, laugh about, and now write about.
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bklyniiite
wrote on January 9 2009 @ 12:57 pm: [report]
Female ejaculate is known as amerta, or the elixir of immortality, in tantric sex.
bklyniiite
wrote on January 9 2009 @ 01:00 pm: [report]
actually, I spelled it wrong…it’s Amrita.
whoops. lol.
Humble Bee
wrote on January 9 2009 @ 02:05 pm: [report]
I love expirementing on myself. I can serioulsly say that I dont ejaculate the same when i’m playing with myself, than when im having sex. I please myself way more, maybe because we know our certain spots, when we’re about to climax we keep going and voila. Instead of having sex, your about to climax, and bam he stops! Thats what usually happens to me. So I just go home and finish the job
HereComestheSunQ
wrote on January 9 2009 @ 02:15 pm: [report]
@Humble Bee Haha, so true! I’ve learned to keep my big moans until after the job is done, or he think it’s already occurred and stops!
G Hottie
wrote on January 10 2009 @ 06:54 pm: [report]
I had this happen with guy I was dating. The first time it happened it didn’t feel like a regular orgasm. Not bad, not better, just different. But suddenly we were almost literally sloshing around on the bed and everything was soaked. We couldn’t even sleep in that bed that night. The second time was the same but less so. It freaked me out a little at first because I thought it was pee or something like that but when I realized what it was I thought it was kinda cool. I made the mistake of telling partners since then that I’m a “squirter” and then after that they always consider it their personal mission to make me do it and that’s a lot of pressure to put on a girl.
ExGirlfriend
wrote on January 10 2009 @ 08:09 pm: [report]
I learned how a few months ago, and while it’s fun, it makes a huge mess. I try not to tell people about it cause then they ask for tips or they want to watch or something. I’m not a carnival freak show! I have feelings too!
Dominant
wrote on January 12 2009 @ 08:41 am: [report]
@ Humble Bee & HerecomesthesunQ,
Why would you fake such thing? Yes, I know we all know our bodies & spots better than anyone, but having sex should be a fun thing together. From a guy’s perspective, that’s almost like a pitty #&@$%. We’d rather you take the time and help us find those same pleasure spots, then to pass it off. And don’t think it’ll hurt our egos. Any guy who pulls that #&@$% needs a reality check. We’re willing to learn as much as you are.
PS when a female does ejaculate when having sex, it is sexy & messy & fun.
CuteCora
wrote on February 11 2009 @ 01:43 pm: [report]
*Dominant* I totally agree with you, It does not seem right to me to be in a relationship where you are obviosuly sexually unsatisfied(Humblebee..thats you) and lie about it! It’s almost like cheating..what do you expect your men to do if you do not tell them things or be honest! You bet if I had to “Finish myself” my husband would know immediatly!! cause i wanna fix the problem! you also better bet my partner knowes my sounds, moves etc, so that I dont have to hold in pleasure moans and he thinks im about to orgazm right away.. hell no! and this is to (herecomesthesunq) if your man hears you make a pleasure noises from sex and STOPS cause he thinks you are done..that clearly indicates that the 2 of you are not completly sexually satisfied or now what you want or expect from eachother, because in a relationship (especially a sexual one) it is SOOO important that the other person knows you inside and out..haha no pun intended~
bklyniiite
wrote on February 11 2009 @ 02:03 pm: [report]
Here’s one for you…
My boyfriend claims releasing semen drains the chi (life force)...so at the point of orgasm, he can have the same effect of one without the body fluids to his chi strong.
The guys I dated before him thought female ejaculation was a myth and I am one lucky (albeit chi-less) girl.
MrsFox
wrote on March 4 2009 @ 04:02 pm: [report]
I love my Hitatchi Wand
I can do this too, and discovered it similarly.
Lonely_Latina
wrote on August 16 2009 @ 03:58 pm: [report]
I discovered I was able to squirt with an ex and it feels like both a dream and a curse. I was able to have an orgasm every time we had sex but after he discovered my g spot, I felt like I could never go back to ho-hum sex. Well now not only do I never have an orgasm with my current partner, he doesn’t even try to get me in the mood, nevermind actually having sex. It feels like someone played a terrible joke..showed me what pleasure really is then took it away. Well at least I have my dildo’s and memories.