Since we don’t spend most of our days in bed, we can’t expect all romance to happen there. As an article from Match.com’s Happen magazine suggests, you and your partner can seduce each other while going about your daily activities. However, we don’t recommend their tips for kicking things up a notch while in public. Instead, read our five moves for turning up the temperature while you and your honey remain clothed.
Even walking with your guy can be sensual, but any kind of walking that requires the two of you to move as one will be awkward and will annoy everyone else around you. Instead of hug-walking, walking in front of your partner with his arms around you while he puts his face over your shoulder and occasionally kisses your neck, or walking with your hand in your guy’s back pocket, link your arm through his and actually have a conversation about what you’d like to try in the bedroom.
If you’re not into embarrassing yourself or making every one around you uncomfortable, then skip the music-free, public slow dancing that Happen suggested and just try embracing each other deeply for as long as you can.
There’s nothing more sensual than surprising your man with a kiss from behind while he’s doing something mundane like washing dishes. You can tease a little bit by just letting him feel your breath, as Match.com suggests, but you should complete the deed with a kiss. Teasing is fun because you know eventually you’ll get exactly what you desire.
Your man would probably appreciate a hand massage the next time you two are watching TV, but he’d appreciate a foot massage even more because this is the part of his body he neglects most. And these Sexy Love Sox will show you which buttons to push to get him really turned on.
We do agree that secret PDA, i.e., squeezing a thigh under a dinner table, can be really exciting. You can take it one step farther by engaging in some old school footsie with your man, just make sure to avoid kicking other people.
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Naneenya
wrote on February 23 2009 @ 12:20 pm: [report]
I think I would be a little weirded out if someone came up to me and just breathed on me.
Sounds to me like the writer of that article has been watching a little too much on the Oxygen Network. Not that there’s anything wrong with staying in and watching Julia Roberts movie marathons - I mean, whatever was on this weekend…
...Bueller?
writergirl
wrote on February 23 2009 @ 12:51 pm: [report]
Me know how to do dishes?????
writergirl
wrote on February 23 2009 @ 12:55 pm: [report]
Sorry….that was supposed to be
MEN know how to do dishes….
ExGirlfriend
wrote on February 23 2009 @ 01:13 pm: [report]
I’m wondering how walking with someones arms wrapped around you is less awkward than walking next to them…
Trishkabob
wrote on February 23 2009 @ 02:48 pm: [report]
I really don’t like that bear hug from behind walking deal. I rather have my bf walk next to me
retro chic
wrote on February 23 2009 @ 08:52 pm: [report]
Sexy PDA with seduction of bf the goal? Change it up, try direct with Old School. Anything not so under-the-radar, and in danger of exposure: In addition to Footsie, thigh squeeze under table… try Semi hand-job thru jeans. A quick and daring flash of skin, or drop your fork. Sexy food savoring. Scan him up and down without a word (linger a little and look away). Accidentally back into his pkg with your bent over as$, (or just brush past it), then look over your shoulder. That well-placed lint fluff on your clothed breast that needs brushing away. Deeper colored lipstick. Toe cleavage. Uncharacteristically assertive or soft that flatters or intrigues him. Max on visual, minimize verbal… tactile and tactical have best results. Other posters have the gentler romantic approaches covered. We’re talkin seduction here, not marriage or dating tips.
Dmun
wrote on February 25 2009 @ 12:35 pm: [report]
Hey, how about some sexy moves for the guys over here??