And The Prize Goes To … The Best Secret For Good Sex
Posted by: Catherine Strawn
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3:15PM, Friday January 29th 2010
Last Friday, we asked you what top-secret tip makes your bedroom romps so amazing in exchange for the season one and two DVDs of Showtime’s “Secret Diary of A Call Girl” and the book the series was based on. You had some sage advice (don’t worry, we’ll share the exhaustive reader wisdom next week), but Alex’s answer made so much sense to us that we think we might have to give up pajamas for good:
“Naked sleep. It’s so simple, but it works for us! The first time my boyfriend and I slept together, we both forgot pajamas, so we slept naked—and it stuck. Now, we sleep naked every night we sleep next to each other, even if we don’t have sex. It makes us more aware of each other’s bodies. Plus, in the middle of the night when we’re feel frisky, there’s no need to take off any shorts or nighties and we just ease right into it. Naked sleep is the way to go!”
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StephanieElizabeth
wrote on January 29, 2010 @ 9:38 PM
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I've gotta agree with this. If you want action or think you might first thing in the a.m., sleep naked! My boyfriend loves it and I don't get too hot under the covers!
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AnitaBath
wrote on January 29, 2010 @ 9:53 PM
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I just like sleeping naked, period. Alas, I share a bedroom with my roommate, so the only time I actually get to sleep naked is when I'm at my boyfriend's house, which is a big plus.
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effing hickster
wrote on January 29, 2010 @ 9:56 PM
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Yeah, nothing beats sleeping naked. I hate waking up with my pajamas turned around backwards.
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vizslalvr
wrote on January 29, 2010 @ 10:01 PM
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I'm a freeze baby and my boyfriend's a hot box, so in order for us to both be comfortable, I'm usually in fleece pajama pants and a t-shirt and he's in athletic shorts with no shirt. Plus, every time we sleep naked I'm woken up by a very horny 25 year old at 3am. Don't get me wrong, I love his enthusiasm, and on the weekends, I'm happy to oblige, but we have sex every night before falling asleep ... if I add middle-of-the-night romps to that, I'll be a zombie every day at work!
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titsmagee
wrote on January 29, 2010 @ 10:16 PM
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We always sleep either naked or in just underwear (I can't not wear boyshorts right after I have sex. It's impossible.). It's a great rule.
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Knitter79
wrote on January 29, 2010 @ 10:18 PM
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Am I the only one that can't sleep naked? Every time I've tried I repeatedly woke up in the middle of the night with cold sweats. Eventually I just put clothes on so I can sleep. Not sure what that is all about. I even tried easing into it by not wearing underwear but wearing pajamas and it still happens.
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Queen Frostine
wrote on January 29, 2010 @ 10:38 PM
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@Knitter79 , Turn the heat up and splurge on nice sheets.
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effing hickster
wrote on January 29, 2010 @ 11:42 PM
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@QF: Yes. A good, puffy comforter will do the trick, even in Chicago.
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Perceptible
wrote on January 30, 2010 @ 3:37 AM
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I can't sleep naked when I'm alone, only when I'm with my bf. I love the skin-to-skin contact all night.... and in the morning!
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Anniushka
wrote on January 30, 2010 @ 4:40 AM
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Sometimes I've gone to bed clothed and woken up naked (or nearly so). I usually kick off my socks if I go to bed with sock on to help my cold feet, but sometimes the rest of my PJs goes, too... Kind of awkward when the only other person in the room is your roommate and she gets to wake up to you with your PJ pants on the floor and your t-shirt pulled half over your head and your boobs hanging out... ha ha. I don't even remember doing it, either. @Knitter79, I sometimes wake up with cold sweats too, but it's not correlated to what I'm wearing. But it's super unpleasant to wake up and your clothes and sheets are all cold, wet, and clammy... ugh!
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alltherest
wrote on January 30, 2010 @ 1:54 PM
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I don't like completely naked, shorts or undies are good enough and come off plenty fast. I do enjoy lounging around the house in just my shorts.
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syk123456
wrote on January 30, 2010 @ 5:04 PM
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i totally disagree and actually some sex therapists disagree too. if you want your naked body to illicit a sexual response from your partner everytime, then only show your naked body when something sexual is going to happen. remember that seinfeld episode? with the girl who is nude all the time, even when opening a jar of pickles? some sex therapists even recommend not to undress infront of him, unless it is to do the deed!
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syk123456
wrote on January 30, 2010 @ 5:05 PM
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i.e. think Pavlov's Dogs.
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onewriter
wrote on January 30, 2010 @ 5:30 PM
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drat. I HATE sleepiing in clothing because it bunches up on me...is panties good enough cover? (scrunching eyes-say yes, say yes)
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tattooed_redhead
wrote on January 30, 2010 @ 5:56 PM
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I got in the habit of sleeping naked when I was married. Now, before I go down to my parents' or anywhere where I'm sharing a room with girlfriends or something, I have to practice for about a week wearing boxers & a tee to bed - and it's soooo hard to get back in the habit! I literally can't sleep at first because they bother me so much!
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justme234
wrote on January 30, 2010 @ 6:27 PM
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syk123456, (with the usually caveat that everyone's different) - I disagree, we shower together almost every morning, she'll remain nude while doing her hair and makeup etc., often sleep nude, and after 30 years I still find it sexy and love looking at her nude.
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magjoy
wrote on January 30, 2010 @ 10:23 PM
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Wait.. people actually sleep in pajamas on a regular basis? I thought they were just for lounging around the house or when you're visiting. ;)[quote]if you want your naked body to illicit a sexual response from your partner every time, then only show your naked body when something sexual is going to happen.[/quote]I think if you're seeing a sex therapist, then there is a need to switch things up. Yes, panties are plenty good. That's what I usually wear. No panties = you're having sex tonight whether you like it or not.
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meredith806
wrote on January 31, 2010 @ 1:42 AM
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I can't sleep in socks or pants, ever. I freak out. So I usually sleep in underwear, and a bra, I hate sleeping without a bra lol. If its really cold I'll put a sweatshirt on, but my boyfriends a furnace so I'm usually set;)Extra Bonus? I'm pretty much guaranteed morning sex. Score.
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AnitaBath
wrote on January 31, 2010 @ 2:01 AM
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@meredith: You can't sleep without a bra? I literally CAN NOT sleep in a bra. When my roommate had guests stay the night last year, I'd sleep in a bra so I wasn't flashing anyone, and I couldn't fall asleep. After about four hours of tossing and turning, I ripped it off and fell asleep instantly.
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BeccaAnne
wrote on January 31, 2010 @ 6:35 AM
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My bf and I always sleep naked, unless I'm really cold or on the rag. I agree that it always nice to feel skin to skin contact even during not sexy times. I don't think seeing him naked all the time will ever make me think he's not sexy.
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meredith806
wrote on January 31, 2010 @ 7:08 AM
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[quote]@meredith: You cant sleep without a bra[/quote]I know, I'm in the major minority here lol. I think it has more to do with the fact that I thrash like a crazy person half the time I'm asleep. My boobs do not appreciate being thrown around wildly without some support..they're rather high maintenance and complain quite a bit. And now I've just personified my chest. cool.
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bettyboo
wrote on January 31, 2010 @ 10:38 AM
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meredith806 - I appreciate the problem, I used to hate having to share a room with someone who wasn't my boyfriend as pretty much whatever i wore, one of the 'girls' would make a bid for freedom overnight.. but I can;t sleep in a bra, even when i'm really drunk or knackered and don;t even bother getting undressed i have to do that taking my bra off without taking my clothes off thing my BF thinks is magic.. ;0) I solved this by getting a nightie from bravissimo, a proper nightie with intregal non underwired etc support, holds everything in place so no more escapees, now i just have to solve the tendancy to be throwing my legs outside and around the covers so i'm decent at the other end and I'm sorted.. ;0)I agree with the original poster about sleeping naked with your BF tho, we pretty much always do, it had never even occured to me not tom even if we start out with something on till the bed warms up we shed it shortly afterwards. We virtually always have sex at least once during the night so it doesn't seem to dull the attraction for us, quite the opposite.. ;0)
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Dutch Guy
wrote on January 31, 2010 @ 3:08 PM
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I've always slept naked and had no trouble persuding anyone sharing my bed to do likewise. I'm a cuddler and sleeping in the spoons position with my arm around my lover and my hand on her breast is her favorite. What amuses me is that she won't take off her sweatshirt until she is under the covers, but usually has her cute naked, bottom peeking out below it as she walks around before bed. We manage the heat issue by the amount of covers on the bed and keep our feet warm in the chilly Minnesota winters with a 22 lb fluffy cat who loves sleeping under the covers by our feet. Sleeping naked does result in some spontaneous sex, especially in the morning, but no one is complaining... except the cat, he's gotta go!
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spark
wrote on January 31, 2010 @ 7:37 PM
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I didn't realize that anyone DID NOT sleep naked after sex. With every guy I've been with, we've slept naked afterward.
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Captain Planet
wrote on January 31, 2010 @ 8:34 PM
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My BF and i sleep naked all the time, sex or no. we just enjoy the feel of eachothers skin. Sometimes, when we are just cuddling on the couch watching movies, we even take our shirts off, just to FEEL eachother and we love it. But we are both huge on the 'physical affection' even when sex isnt an option- like when family is over i'm still sitting on his lap or when at a friend's house his arms are around me or on my thigh. We touch all the time, because its comforting to both of us, and skin on skin is even more comforting because we love each other's bodies and skin
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