5 Theories On Why Dudes Love Crazy Women

_jsw_
wrote on September 9 2009 @ 03:13 pm: [report]

#1, definitely for me.

#2, not so much. Crazy in the head ≠ crazy in bed. They’re distinct things that might occasionally overlap.

#3, maybe for some. My mom’s pretty level-headed.

#4, no - for the reason you gave (it just makes it all worse)

#5, maybe, maybe not. When we’re not ready, we’re not ready, and crazy might make it easier to break up with you… or a lot more dangerous.

Lynn
wrote on September 9 2009 @ 03:27 pm: [report]

I’m with Shallon about how I think a lot of guys just think it’s more interesting/exciting. Although an ex once did tell me (long after we had broken up, when we were just hanging out as friends) that I hadn’t been crazy enough for him - he flat out admitted that he likes the idea of being able to “fix” a girl.

_jsw_
wrote on September 9 2009 @ 03:29 pm: [report]

I’ve learned that you can help out with a person’s life issues (money, education, whatever), but you can’t ever “fix” them (the person). Some self-heal, some heal with help, many just get worse.

GreenAura
wrote on September 9 2009 @ 03:30 pm: [report]

I’m a total crazy girl (reformed, holla!).  I’ve calmed down considerably since my late teens/early twenties (I’m 26 now) but every once in awhile, I feel like doing something totally nutso when I’m pissed.  And I can honestly say that I have no clue why my husband kept coming back for more during my ultra psycho days.  I’m a really good person with strong values and a normally sweet demeanor, but I used to be destructive, vindictive and psychotic when angry.  Is it a Scorpio thing?

GreenAura
wrote on September 9 2009 @ 03:32 pm: [report]

And let me just clarify that it has been years (at least 4) since I’ve done anything crazy.  I guess that I fall into the category of “self-healed”.

_jsw_
wrote on September 9 2009 @ 03:35 pm: [report]

@GreenAura: I’m glad.

And, by the way, “crazy” is defined differently by everyone. Your “crazy” and my “crazy” might be very different things.

Jenn27549
wrote on September 9 2009 @ 03:40 pm: [report]

@GreenAura: same here.  Well, you sound like me in that it was more of a temper problem than an overall crazy problem.  My husband calls most of his exes “crazy” which I’ve learned to translate into “doesn’t agree with me”  so I take it with a grain of salt   But when you really love someone and are willing to stick it out, some—like us—get better.  It’s been a long time since I broke anything, too!  I realized there would be a day when he wouldn’t come back and it wasn’t helping anywhere else in my life.  I grew up in a household were tantrums were how things got accomplished, but that’s not right or healthy.

As for why guys date crazy chicks I really don’t know.  Most situations I’ve known she *seemed* normal at the beginning and then her crazy came out somewhere down the road then he’s “stuck” with the crazy chick, trying to figure a way out.  I dunno?

GreenAura
wrote on September 9 2009 @ 03:43 pm: [report]

@_jsw_:  Okay, let’s see if our definitions of crazy match (or let’s just say “crazy behavior”)... picture this… it’s Christmas Eve.  Your close buddy just broke up with his girlfriend who he has a newborn son with.  He calls you asking for you to come over and have a few drinks with him so that he isn’t alone the night before a big holiday.  You tell your new wife, and she doesn’t like the idea.  A minor argument ensues.  Without warning, your lovely new wife picks up your 6’ tall, fully decorated tree and hurls it at you, the porcelain angel narrowly missing your head.  Dozens of glass ornaments break all over the kitchen floor.  You decide to leave in order to avoid full meltdown of said wife.  Upon driving away, you look back at your house and watch, in horror, as your sweet little lady proceeds to PUNCH through 2 of the 3 living room windows, cutting up her fists, screaming obscenities the entire time.  Crazy?  We get small trees now.

_jsw_
wrote on September 9 2009 @ 03:48 pm: [report]

@GreenAura: Nah, that doesn’t sound too bad. You missed his head, after all.

FrzKey
wrote on September 9 2009 @ 03:55 pm: [report]

Sometimes crazy people like to be around crazy people. It makes them feel normal. Yes my completely insane ex sited this when he left me for a batshit crazy woman. One idiot psycho deserves his other imnsho.

FrzKey
wrote on September 9 2009 @ 04:00 pm: [report]

And to be clear they both had a laundry list of diagnosed serious mental illnesses, so when I say crazy I mean literally out of their idiot minds.

majicksand
wrote on September 9 2009 @ 04:36 pm: [report]

I’m certified (as opposed to merely certifiable), but my husband’s ex makes me look positively normal.  So I’m an upgrade!  His problem is he’s too nice.  Once he got involved with her, he didn’t know how to get out.  She cried, screamed, begged, etc. everytime he tried.  It’s a long, twisted story (that does not involve cheating, btw), but yeah, I did witness it.  I’m not just taking his word for it.

slip
wrote on September 9 2009 @ 05:39 pm: [report]

I’ve been with some nine-eyed-moon-demon chicks, and they were all incredible in the sack. And behind the Franklin Street 7-11. And on elevators. And a lot of other places.

The other stuff gets old after a while, but the memories make me need to go lie down in a dark room with a damp cloth on my forehead for a few hours.

Silver

Ginger
wrote on September 9 2009 @ 05:46 pm: [report]

Woah, woah, woah. Wait a minute. Let’s go back to theory number two for a moment.

Are you telling me that guy will do stupid things and make bad decisions in order to get laid?

Consider my mind blown.

Queline
wrote on September 9 2009 @ 06:27 pm: [report]

As a “crazy” girl, I definitely agree with #1; I tend to attract quite a few guys with savior complexes.  Sometimes they’re also in the midst of a masculinity crisis and believe, often erroneously, that being with an unstable girl will make them feel more powerful and manly.  And they definitely expect that I’ll be an interesting lay. 

But at least from my own experiences, I can tell you that the lure of the crazy girl is powerful but ephemeral.  You get a lot of guys who expect that you’ll make them feel better about themselves, and you get a lot of guys who are just curious.  But once curiosity has been satisfied, and once guys realize that they’ll need to look within THEMSELVES (and not within a weaker partner) to resolve their own insecurities, there might not be much left.

ChoJinn
wrote on September 9 2009 @ 06:27 pm: [report]

Well, if something could trump the Glamour article’s expose on projecting female insecurity, TheFrisky sure did.  Basically, you “normal” single girls are getting trumped because you’re probably less physically attractive and more boring.  There is PLENTY of time for Plain Janes when we are ready to start changing light bulbs.

I’ve known some very batsh*t girls, and they all were either tigers in the sack or simply cool to be around (usually).  Perhaps some excess testosterone makes them that way, or more amenable to masculine behavior?  For the Nth time, just because we don’t want to date you doesn’t mean there is something wrong with us.

prgirl
wrote on September 9 2009 @ 07:20 pm: [report]

Reformed crazy girl-I self-healed or grew up, either way you want to look at it is fine with me. I definitely agree with #5, at least for me as a “crazy” woman—on my wedding day I took bets on how long the marriage would last…. I do feel bad for my former bf’s/husband, and have apologized to most…
and well, according to my bf, still crazy in the sack;)

Isabela Laval
wrote on September 9 2009 @ 07:42 pm: [report]

I’m gonna take #1 and apply that to women as well.  Could this be the reason why women keep going back to d-bags, to build up their egos/self-esteem?

@GreenAura:  Absolutely a Scorpio thing!  Case in point:  My ex and I were driving back to his house with a hamper full of his clean laundry.  We were on the freeway when some argument about nonsense ensued.  I pulled over, proceeded to dump his laundry all over the freeway, and left him there.  THEN… I proceeded to call his buddies to instruct them not to pick him up when he calls for a ride home or else.  Funny thing is that they listened.  Me:  5’2, 105lbs.  Them:  6footers, 200lbs.

I will say that this was when I was in my early 20s.  I am absof*ckinglutely reformed now! 

ootie
wrote on September 10 2009 @ 08:48 am: [report]

I think that in most cases, its about the excitement aspect.  I have a very crazy friend who looooves drama, and she and her boyfriend break up about twice a month.  When she talks about her relationship it basically goes “well, when we first got together in the summer, it was a big rough patch. then that fall was really bad for us.  the winter sucked and we broke up. we got back together in spring but weren’t getting along at all”, etc.  All the time I want to ask her why they are together at all, but I think for them, they like to have the constant excitement and drama that you don’t have in a calm, content long-term relationship.  Its like keeping your relationship perpetually in the “do they like me, will they call me” stage.

spatula
wrote on September 10 2009 @ 09:05 am: [report]

I guess I’m a bit of a self-diagnosed crazy girl. No one’s ever complained, but I sure feel crazy sometimes.

My (male) best friend is convinced that “all hot girls are crazy” and he isnt sure which came first, the hot or the crazy. Does anyone watch How I Met Your Mother? They talk about a “Hot/Crazy Scale” under the same theory.

EarthGoddess
wrote on September 10 2009 @ 01:24 pm: [report]

An ex I’m friends with confirmed #2 for me. He’s very ... ahem ... experienced and swears the best sex is with girls who are a little “off” in the head. He said they usually have fewer boundaries and therefor are more fun than the average girl both in bed and out. He said he broke up with me years ago because I’m too “normal” for him and we’re better as friends. I agree. Despite being a single dad, he also has no plans to ever settle down with a girl, so stability’s not something he really needs since he tends to cycle through women fairly quickly. Luckily, he rarely introduces them to his son, so their lack of long-term potential isn’t really a concern. I guess if you’re only in it for fun, crazy is the way to go!

develange
wrote on September 10 2009 @ 05:27 pm: [report]

So…can we please define “crazy.” Please. Just throw a few out there.

Growing up, I was called crazy when I showed any sort of strong emotion, usually anger. So, are crazy girls the one who cause “drama” all the time, or the ones who have actual mental disorders (or both)?

I’ve often heard, from guys, that “all you women are crazy.” Really? So I guess that means no guy will ever have a healthy relationship. But at least they are having AWESOME sex.

beeper
wrote on September 10 2009 @ 06:12 pm: [report]

All women ARE crazy. I AM a woman and I am saying this. We are all crazy in some way or another.

nom de guerre
wrote on September 10 2009 @ 10:58 pm: [report]

Ya mean thar’s other types!!??
(Or in other words: The moon’s always full somewhere.)

Squidtermz
wrote on September 11 2009 @ 07:54 am: [report]

I’ve always said that women are either crazy or boring. That could go for men too, but men can also be stupid. Stupid women don’t make up enough of a percentage to count.

matty pops
wrote on September 11 2009 @ 11:51 am: [report]

I can confirm #2 through too many instances. I learned after a while, though, that crazy really is crazy.

WuzzaDem
wrote on September 11 2009 @ 11:59 am: [report]

#2 for everyman, and #3 for us unlucky ones. Great to date, but I wouldn’t marry one. Ever.

kab
wrote on September 11 2009 @ 01:57 pm: [report]

#1 supported by the Peter Pan and Pygmalion Syndroms!

kmatter
wrote on September 11 2009 @ 04:44 pm: [report]

@ Green Aura: yeah, i think it is a scorpio thing. i know male and female are different, but my bf can get crazy when he’s mad too. he’s also scorpio. and we come back… because we love you and know that eventually you’ll calm down and it’s worth the wait.

ohfxck
wrote on September 11 2009 @ 04:58 pm: [report]

I feel sooo much better reading these stories. Good to know I’ll grow out of this! I’m 22 and abso-effing-lutely crazy. I haven’t acted on any crazy impulses.. but let’s just say I have a couple of passwords left over from my last relationship;D Aaand I freak at the thought of him being with another woman (or girl, he’s 24 and I’m his oldest girlfriend).. I mean, we broke up a month ago.. but I saw him buying a “friend” drinks at a bar the other day and I flew off the freaking handle!

Iammina
wrote on September 11 2009 @ 05:54 pm: [report]

Wow, this could be a Scorpio thing. I do have a temper that has frightened me at times, so I learned to control it and channel the energy into something more protective like cleaning house. Once I got extremely angry when I was newly married. I waited until my husband went to work, hired a moving van and completely moved out of our house. Needless to say, my man was shocked when he opened the front door that evening. I did leave him a note, a cup and a pillow.

auntiegrav
wrote on September 11 2009 @ 07:30 pm: [report]

You missed one: There is a fine line between genius and insanity, and sometimes it is an oscillation. Crazy chicks sometimes are very very intelligent, and some of us (believe it or not) really dig intelligence.
The “I hate you!-Don’t leave me!” bit is kinda hard to egress from, though.
Oh yeah, and the smart-crazy ones are usually better at sex than the dumb-crazy ones.
Not to forget that crazy people seem to be attracted to people who don’t faun over them and so put a lot of effort into getting their attention.

crrnball
wrote on September 11 2009 @ 08:01 pm: [report]

It’s a Scorpio thing! They are crazy but they are great in bed!

tangerine-eve
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 12:36 am: [report]

What about it’s a capricorn thing? I dated a scorpio and he tried to kill himself in my apartment…. I have a thing for crazy people, but not that crazy anymore.

I an still to this day wondering why guys like me so much. I’m a bitch, if I must say so myself. If I have to guess, I would say they like us crazy chicks because we tend to be the most honest in most situations (except for those pathological liars kind, but I prefer to put those in the ‘bad crazy’ kind). I would take a gander to say that guys like me because no matter how out-there the stuff on my mind is, I say it and don’t apologize.
It’s lost me a lot of friends, but at the end of the day it’s good?

beruang
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 11:55 am: [report]

Gotta disagree with Squidtermz—I’ve met plenty of idiots in my day.

Jenn27549 is on to something.  In my own case, she seemed nice and funny and intelligent.  It was only after a few dates that her cruel, self-involved side started to show.  And even then, it was a slow accumulation of incidents—never quite enough straw to break the camel’s back.  (She was eventually diagnosed as manic-depressive, but she refused treatment because, in her words, to do so would be to admit there was something wrong with her.)

Auntie Grav may be on to something—chick in question was a PhD.  Plenty of book smarts; not one iota of people smarts.

But #2 was completely invalid in this case—the sex was awful.  So why’d I stick it out for six months?  Because there were no other options.  I was one of those nice guys who rarely got a first date and never got a second.  It was either give ol’ Looney Tunes one more chance, or start hitting the Personal Ads again.  By the time she was through, the Personals held no fear.  (Though I did give myself the summer off to recuperate.  Plus, I figured it wouldn’t be fair to start dating a new girl while I was still pissed at the old one.)

Jenn27549
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 12:24 pm: [report]

Its a Gemini thing too, since there are two sides to us.  Mine are crazy/angry/frustrated and calm/laid back/sweet.  Never know which one’s going to come out.  I could react differently to two identical incidents depending on the day.

I just grew up in a way that rewarded tantrums.  If you didn’t get your way the tantrum wasn’t big enough.  I always dated pushovers who just wanted it to stop so they would give me whatever I demanded to calm me down.  My husband is not like that.  The more I pushed and fought the more he pushed back.  I finally realized after one particularly bad week/weekend that I was making him feel the way my dad sometimes made me feel when he’d lose his temper over something I did or said.  The the switch flipped.  I don’t like being treated that way by anyone so why should he?  Now that I “behave” I get what I want from him so much more consistently, without the big fit, and we are both happier in general.  I’ve also figured out the other areas of my life that have been adversely affected by my temper and trying to correct those, as well.

drebella
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 01:40 pm: [report]

ok so first off i have been visiting this site for a really long time…jsw and cheeze are my favorite commentators usually…anyway i texted my best friend(with benefits) to ask him(since i know hes had crazy girl “encounters”) as to why he thought crazy girls are usually better in bed…he replied because they really really love d*ck…to which i replied i don’t think thats a good answer because i love d*ck(most girls do i think), and im not crazy( i always considered myself to be a reformed crazy girl since im 25 and have matured and don’t ball stomp men or punch them or scream anymore)..this is word for word the response I got back
him :” You are crazy. Im gonna take a nap”
me:“fine take your nap, im both offended and flattered, lol”
him:“lol, go sit on that purple toy”
so as i discovered after i thought about it A: I am crazy…just not psycho batsh*t crazy” and B: guys dig us cause we have less inhibitions…also Im Aquarius so i disagree with the whole Sagittarius thing as an explanation…lol

_jsw_
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 01:48 pm: [report]

@drebella: Thanks for the compliment, although it does somewhat confirm that you’re at least a little crazy.

I agree that crazy knows no season, so all astrological signs are susceptible. Also, I’m really glad we didn’t meet back when you did ball stomp men. Ouch!

majicksand
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 02:03 pm: [report]

I’ve mentioned previously that I’m bi-polar (therefore actually crazy).  I am also a gemini with a gemini rising.  I had a conversation last night with an old friend who was with me one of the nights I went completely manic while drinking.  I blatantly offered myself to him, and he walked away even though we’d slept together in the past and knew it was fantastic. 

His official explanation was that I was drunk and he didn’t want me to be pissed at him the next morning for taking advantage of my inebriation.  The real truth though, is that I scared the crap out of him because I was totally out of control.  He couldn’t stop me from being stupid, so he opted to stand guard and make sure no one else took advantage.

I slept alone that night and felt better for it.  He’s still a good friend.  Oh, and btw, I don’t drink anymore.

drebella
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 02:05 pm: [report]

@_jsw_ lol…..in all fairness though it was only one b/f that brought out the violent-crazy ball stomping me… and he totally deserved it..in fact i probably would go back and do all over again….god he was infuriating!!! lol

_jsw_
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 02:13 pm: [report]

@drebella: OK, but forgive me if I wear a codpiece should we meet. It’s not because of your past. It’s merely a tribute to the fashion of the middle ages.

drebella
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 02:26 pm: [report]

@_jsw_ case and point as to why your one of my favorites…im cool with middle age tributes…i see nothing wrong with that..but in keeping with the theme i might bring along a billhook…you never know in this day and age when a girl has to bring something along to protect herself

_jsw_
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 02:30 pm: [report]

@drebella: That’s fine by me. It just means you’re into cutting, which marks you as being mildly crazy, which means you’re obviously good in bed. Thankfully, the codpiece will hide my arousal.

majicksand
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 02:39 pm: [report]

Ooh, can I wear a tavern wench outfit with a corset?

_jsw_
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 02:46 pm: [report]

@majicksand: You can wear anything you want if you bring she-who-never-joined.

drebella
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 02:52 pm: [report]

lol you guys are funny…Im off before all this gets too much for _jsw_ and he breaks his codpiece because he just can’t hide his arousal….

majicksand
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 02:55 pm: [report]

@jsw: Am I not welcome for myself alone?  Must I pimp out my friends to be invited?  I believe I shall cry.

_jsw_
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 02:58 pm: [report]

@majicksand: It is only because of your beauty and compelling intellect that I ask that you bring another, lest I feel compelled to lust after you, an act which would surely leave me writhing in pain, either because I tried to act on my desires or because I did not. Without someone to distract me, my suffering would be guaranteed. Another Siren to call to me would be most welcome.

majicksand
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 03:03 pm: [report]

@jsw: Oh, well that’s all right then.   Should I slut her up then?

_jsw_
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 03:04 pm: [report]

@majicksand: At this point, all I really ask for is a pulse.

majicksand
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 03:06 pm: [report]

@jsw: Maybe, but I’m guessing you wouldn’t turn down cleavage spilling attire were it offered.

_jsw_
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 03:10 pm: [report]

@majicksand: Maybe, but I don’t normally dress that way, even if you offer me an outfit like that.

However, if SWNJ (she who never joined) shows up, she could be wearing a deep-sea diving outfit and I’d be fine with it.

majicksand
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 03:15 pm: [report]

@jsw: More likely a Depeche Mode t-shirt covered in cat hair.

_jsw_
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 03:19 pm: [report]

@majicksand: I see no problem with that, especially if it’s the entire outfit.

majicksand
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 03:23 pm: [report]

@jsw: I thought about loaning her my thigh-high leather boots to go with the shirt.  Overkill?

_jsw_
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 03:31 pm: [report]

@majicksand: Probably so. But let her wear it all anyway, and I’ll see if she can pull it off.

majicksand
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 03:38 pm: [report]

@jsw: She’s not incredibly fashion (or any other kind of) forward.  She may need some help.

_jsw_
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 03:40 pm: [report]

I can assure you I’ll give her whatever she needs.

majicksand
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 03:59 pm: [report]

@jsw: Be careful.  She may decide she needs a Porsche!  I doubt it, but you never know.

Michael Zeleny
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 04:47 pm: [report]

All reasons given above ring hollow. One reason that applies to all men regardless of their heroic ambitions, maternal fixations, and promiscuous predilection, is implied by Sigmund Freud’s observation of their <a >universal tendency to debasement in the sphere of love</a>. It stands to reason that crazy women are more deserving of such debasement, and much more fun to debase, than their sane counterparts.

Michael Zeleny
wrote on September 12 2009 @ 04:49 pm: [report]

All reasons given above ring hollow. One reason that applies to all men regardless of their heroic ambitions, maternal fixations, and promiscuous predilections, is implied by Sigmund Freud’s observation of their universal tendency to debasement in the sphere of love.

http://larvatus.livejournal.com/221676.html

It stands to reason that crazy women are far more deserving of such debasement, and much more fun to debase, than their sane counterparts.

Gingee
wrote on September 13 2009 @ 11:14 am: [report]

The guy I was with, between marriages, liked being The Fixer and he also liked the drama.  His life was rather bland and boring, before he met Miss PMSing all month long.

The day that I became calm [thank you, Xanax], he lost interest.

I’ve never had a guy fall out of love so quickly.  Last I heard, he was trying to find another gal just like the wacko I used to be.  Hehehehehehehehee.

HappyDude
wrote on September 28 2009 @ 07:43 pm: [report]

2 + 5 are the correct answers.

Of course, there’s a difference between guys who date crazy chicks for the sex, and who are in relationships with crazy girls who cause them serious stress. For the latter group, the other theories hold more weight.

DancerNinja
wrote on September 29 2009 @ 02:55 pm: [report]

Men can be crazy, too! Or maybe I have this thing for getting involved with the men-child type.

volcanmuse
wrote on October 4 2009 @ 06:15 am: [report]

I guess they dig crazy chicks to not question their own behavior and even if they deny it they just like the drama my boyfriend’s ex’s were all dramatic, hysterical, cruel and had erratic behavior,etc. and he seems to need this girls around. I just found he had affaires with two of his friend’s girlfriends behind my back, both of the girls with very troubled personalities. I am all the opposite, down to earth and easy going, so I guess this is why he keeps looking for the trouble somewhere else.

jules2009
wrote on October 4 2009 @ 10:35 pm: [report]

My guy got sick of crazy women and I got fed up with the “dangerous” type of man. In the end we both realized one doesn’t need a medicated partner in order to have a healthy relationship and get nutty in the sack…

adamjs
wrote on October 4 2009 @ 11:23 pm: [report]

Without the crazy in your life - you have to live vicariously through someone else’s relationship.

I’m all for the crazy.

jules2009
wrote on October 5 2009 @ 10:19 am: [report]

I don’t need to have crazy in my life to enjoy it nor must I live vicariously through another persons insanity. I am not into gossip and my philosophy is that I am a lady on the street and a slut in the bedroom. Nothing crazy about that.

TheRon needs to find someone who believes in this and get off the crazy train! He may find himself with a knife in his back or otherwise wounded.

Misguided theories on what makes a woman sexual is deadly at times. These women try too hard. Most of the time they are needy and have low to no self-esteem. Try a chic with confidence in her sexuality and has a good head on her shoulders. Maybe both your heads will truly be happy one day…Just sayin’

BlueLadyButterfly
wrote on October 7 2009 @ 01:12 pm: [report]

I just want to confirm that yes “GreenAcrua”, u r crazy but don’t worry looks like ur not alone, u have a friend in “Isabel Laval”. I’m sure u 2 have alot in common. LOL
-Crazy PPl-

I mean Why and what’s the purpose.  Never let someone change who u are. I understand certain situations may get under ur skin, but ladies ladies ladies lets not be soo ugly AND proud to brag about it.

In my past relationships I’ve asked guys,Why is it they like crazy chicks? Their response is always, “Well she wasn’t crazy when we hooked up”. Which is always a lie, cause there are always signs. Guys just choose not to pay them any attention to them becase their so caught up in the game of “Can I get It”. These women key their cars, trash their homes, take their money, curse them out, belittle them in public etc. And still the guys stay or leave and find another Just like her. Amazing….
Men….U just gotta Love em…..

Hymie
wrote on October 13 2009 @ 04:39 pm: [report]

Only young guys who aren’t experienced to know better, or crazy guys like the crazy ladies. 

Guys don’t want the hassle.  Period.

jules2009
wrote on October 14 2009 @ 10:27 am: [report]

My guy actually married his now ex-wife only to discover she was bipolar. She hid her mother’s mental illness and her father’s abusive behavior. She revealed it AFTER the wedding. Of course she laid all of her past pain on him. It was his responsibility to make her happy. She ended up seeking other men to validate her and her womanhood. She loved sex and strip bars but she can’t be faithful.She made a failed attempt at suicide and then wanted all to pity her. At that point he was fed up. The last straw was the 2 pregnancies. She cheated with a friend and neighbor of theirs. She miscarried one and tried to have him accept the last one as his own. He jumped through legal hoops and a paternity test to prove the child wasn’t his even though he had been neutered. LMAO! The woman is a certifiable nut. She continues to use his name to run up credit card debt and he has to go back to court to bring her up on contempt charges. Now that is one case of crazy he and I can do without.

VinnieBarbarino
wrote on November 18 2009 @ 01:00 pm: [report]

As someone who is once again coming out of yet another excruciating break-up which is not unlike going to the dentist, i’m grateful to find this thread.(at this point i am receiving about 8-18 emails a day from this crazy person)
I’ve been with more than my share of mental women thru-out my life and i’m also an extremely laid-back tactile fix-it type, perhaps reading too many erotica and Marvel comix as a teenager… but the initial attraction to crazies for me has always been the opportunity to indulge in manic-shallow-uninhibited sex. crazy girls want to please in the initial stages and prove how much they aren’t crazy. usually a little red light/warning alarm will go off once a guy begins to suspect something’s not quite all there—but then he’ll ignore that warning for the promise of wild sex.
  this last one could never even have a full converstaion without over-reacting or obsessing over some small detail of something minor (like other people wearing clothes she didnt like, or some stranger who’s the reincarnation of Gandhi giving evil looks etc); but the sex with all these women was definately above average.
  i know now that sex with crazy girls is an extremely high price to pay post-coitally and my advice to other guys like me is don’t do it! You’re better off waiting for someone you can trust.