5 Reasons Moving Is Good For You
Posted by: Susannah Breslin
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12:30PM, Tuesday March 9th 2010
Over the course of my life so far, I’ve lived in the Bay Area, Los Angeles, Chicago, New Orleans, and Virginia. Soon, I’ll probably be moving again. Sure, there are people who’ve moved way more than me, but I like to pull up roots and relocate every so often. It can be something of a pain in the butt to move all your stuff, but I feel like it’s one of the most important things that has changed me as a person. If you’re longing for some new scenery, interested in meeting different types of people, or are looking to find out more about what you love and what you don’t, the path of relocation can guide you towards greater insight as to who you really are. Find out more after the jump.
1. Change is good. Whether you’re stuck in a rut or just think you are, moving to a new city can help push you in new directions. The challenge of relocation and the inevitable excitement of “finding yourself” again in a new place force you to rethink who you are, and what you really want out of life.
2. Diversity rules. If you’ve always lived in the same place, there are a great many benefits. You’ve got close family, a tight circle of friends, and you know your place backwards and forwards. There is something comfortable about fitting in. But encountering new types of people and new ways of living will reshape who you thought you were into who you can become.
3. Eat it up. You’re not merely changing your place on a map. Depending on how far you go, you’re exposing yourself to a whole new culture. Never lived in the South? That’s a whole differently culinary experience. Dying to immerse yourself in the ethnic melting pot that is New York City? Go for it! Your palate and your outlook will never be the same.
4. It’s not that hard. The secret to moving on a quasi-regular basis is simple. Don’t accrue too much stuff. Think about what you really need. Various experiences in my life have taught me that it’s not what you have in the world, it’s what you have inside. Dump the chairs and extra clothes. When you live light, you can gather more experiences, and, in the end, that’s what counts.
5. It’s not permanent. Don’t like where you end up? Don’t worry! You can always move again. Just make sure you give it a chance, before you go back to the place from whence you came. Whether you’re working out at a new yoga studio, meeting new friends that you only knew online previously, or are wading into a whole new dating pool, if you embrace your new city, it may embrace you right back.
Tags: moving, relocating, starting over

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alliecat
wrote on March 9, 2010 @ 6:41 PM
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LOVE This post! I'm planning a big relocation from Chicago to Florida at the end of May, and a lot of my friends at school think I'm completely nuts. Fact is, I grew up in the Chicago area, my family never went on vacations when I was a kid, so this is going to be my first real opportunity to experience something other than the Chicago way of life!I'm scared to death of the move itself, and yeah, I'm nervous about meeting new people in that "first day of school, I'm not going to know anyone there" way, but I'm really excited about the opportunity! Three more months - I can't wait!!
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Dagny Taggart
wrote on March 9, 2010 @ 6:42 PM
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I am taking a break right now from the final cleaning touches of our move, and I couldn't agree more with this article! After being a milwife for 5 years we have moved all over the country and even though my husband is now out of the Army, we are still moving around. I dislike the packing, but it always gives us a chance to start fresh and get rid of things we have acquired that maybe we didn't like sooo much. It also revs up our relationship because we are exploring a new place together. It kind of makes me feel like a newlywed again because everything is all new.
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LB20
wrote on March 9, 2010 @ 6:48 PM
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I grew up as a military dependent and have lived in 12 different states. I'd add that it gives you a chance to recreate yourself. You are who you are, but embarassing things or mistakes from your past can stay there, making it easier to present a different image when you get to a new place. So, no one after 4th grade ever knew about that time I really really had to go to the bathroom.... until now.
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I Go To 11
wrote on March 9, 2010 @ 6:53 PM
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Good tips! I spent the first 22 years of my life being a military dependent (Air Force brat for 19, Army wife for the last 3.) The longest I've ever stayed in one spot was 7 years. I've lived in 6 different states and 2 foreign countries, and after awhile I find myself getting antsy to try a new locale. I like where I'm at now; it's small enough to where I don't feel overwhelmed (like I did when I tried my hand at living in the downtown part of a major city), but diverse enough to keep things interesting, since it's (mostly) a college town. When I first moved on my own from my small-town hometown to a major city in a different state, I had friends tell me, "You're so brave, there's no way I could make such a big move by myself!" I didn't know why they were telling me that; I guess I'm just so accustomed to moving around that doing a move by myself (I've always been quite independent) didn't faze me.
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catgirlll
wrote on March 9, 2010 @ 6:59 PM
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Moving to a new place is definitely a character-shaping experience. It has definitely inspired independence and perspective for me that I wouldn't have developed had I stayed in the same place. However, I don't think it's really necessary to keep moving on a continuous basis. Making one or two big moves is sufficient (and more realistic) than moving all the time. After all, there is something to be said for putting down roots.
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Singularity
wrote on March 9, 2010 @ 7:11 PM
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I have never really moved, still living within just a few miles of the same area I have always lived, mostly just because I actually quite like it here. But I can see the appeal of a move, and I like this post too for emphasising the good things that can come out of one. Most people treat moving as a nothing but a giant stress event, but it doesn't have to be like that at all, and if you approach it with the right attitude, I imagine it could be quite a fun adventure.
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resullins
wrote on March 9, 2010 @ 7:19 PM
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I've moved across the country 8 times and have lived in 31 different houses/apartments since I was born (26 years, 10 months, and 1 day ago). I REALLY love movig for all these reasons! Also, can I add to this list that it's really awesome to re-organize and reasses all your possesions. You can't be a pack-rat when you have to move it all!!!
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NikkiL
wrote on March 9, 2010 @ 7:26 PM
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For those of you who have moved a lot, what do you do about making new friends and meeting people? The only time I moved was to go to college and I have stayed in the same area. I wouldn't mind a change of scenery but I wonder if I would be really lonely in a new place.
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AncientMariner
wrote on March 9, 2010 @ 8:01 PM
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Excellent post, Susannah. I'm actively adopting exactly this 'change is good' style in my life right now, and paying the price for not having adopted it long ago. I spent a long time married, living in big houses (sometimes with barns as well), and I accumulated a sh*tload of stuff. The family moves filled moving vans, with stuff left over. My last house had 4 BRs and a full basement, and it was FULL of stuff.When I moved into an apartment, I did a major downsize. I still needed 100+ square feet of off-site storage. By the time I moved again, 18 months later to another city, I had gotten rid of enough stuff to no longer need storage. Yay. The process continues. Now, in a place I may have for a few years, I continue to slim down. I want my next move to be easy.I'm making career choices now that will require me to be more mobile, and being mobile isn't a cost, it's a benefit. I was looking for ways to get myself moving again. I'm on the brink of a change that will probably take me to Europe for at least a year, in two years time. I've gotta be lean and mean to make this work.The lightened load of possessions is a reward in itself. I look around my 750 sq. ft. apartment, and I love how little stuff is cluttering it. For the first time in 10 years, all my books are together in a wall of bookshelves. None in boxes, none in another room, none in closets. There are less than 900 now, down from a peak 4 years ago of 3000+. It makes me smile to look at them and think "That's it, that's all of them, and the numbers will only go down."I'm heading back toward my days as a student, when everything I owned fit in one backpack and one trunk. You can't soar like an eagle if you are buried in crap.
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bogart4017
wrote on March 9, 2010 @ 8:16 PM
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By age 25 i got a little tired of moving after living in SC, KY, IN, HI, CA, and TX. I finally settled for one state and have been moving within the county back and forth for a few years now. I'm tired! Its easier to meet new people just changing my job location (8 times in 23 years). That way i don't have to move furniture or deal with the post office, utility company, cable, etc. I changed departments again in January and not only have i met some really nice people but i ran into old friends i used to work with back in 1999 in the city and 1988 in the suburbs.
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impoddity
wrote on March 10, 2010 @ 1:41 AM
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@alliecat: Ooh, Sunny Florida. Gird your loins; there's quite a mix of folks depending on where you settle (I'm in Central FL with a big influx of people from South FL).I'm actually getting ready to move out to Olympia, WA for school in the Fall. I'm not apprehensive at all about meeting new people; mostly because I spend the majority of my time alone, but I know I have enough interests to gradually pick a few new buddies.I've already started throwing/giving things away. It helps that I don't have a car, so I can't do a lot of bulky impulse purchases unless I have a ride. I'd have to say the thing I'm looking most forward to, after a break form the humidity (:-S) is the change in the mindset of the people around me. I'll admit living near a university campus grants me only so much mental stimulation, but from all I've heard and experienced, the Pacific NW is one of the most open-minded, tolerant portions of our dear country. And if I don't find what I'm looking for there, I have a passport, and I'm not afraid to use it! :-P
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RoyalEagle0408
wrote on March 10, 2010 @ 3:10 AM
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I figure, I'm young and unmarried, so now is the perfect time for me to follow my career dreams and move to San Diego.I can always move back east after a year or two if I hate it. I'm just over winter.
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Schmetterling
wrote on March 10, 2010 @ 3:25 AM
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As a military brat, I've moved every few years all around the world. Half of me is so sick and tired of moving so often and really wishes I could just stay in one place. The other half is so used to moving so often that I get an itch to leave after a couple of years. All of this moving has made me realize just exactly how important my family is to me, they're all I have and I'd rather live in a crappy place with them then somewhere I love without them.#4 on this list does hold true: I've learned to live with the necessities and don't carry much clutter with me.I've always wondered what it would've been like to have lived in one place my whole life, now that is an interesting concept.
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MondimNebel
wrote on March 10, 2010 @ 3:56 AM
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I've been a number of places in my life, many of which I've thought were fantastic. However, as wonderful as I think those other places are, I just haven't had a desire to <i>move</i> there. I don't think anywhere else in the US offers what New England does. Maybe I'd feel different if I liked cities.
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RoyalEagle0408
wrote on March 10, 2010 @ 4:00 AM
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@Mondim- Since it appears (fingers crossed) that it might actually get warm again here in Boston and I am happy, I will refrain from going into the negative tirade I want to about what New England offers.I find though that your opinion that basically, NE is superior to other places is quite common amongst people from up here. I'm apparently from "the South", since I'm from Philadelphia. Let's learn geography, people, huh?Point 1 of tirade: New England-centric world view. (Check).
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MondimNebel
wrote on March 10, 2010 @ 4:24 AM
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@RE: I love New England so much because I'm in a pretty rural area (in CT) but I'm not that far from civilization. I like the small-town communities and how our government works (town meetings- unique to NE). I like being close to good skiing and close to good beaches (I go down to NJ). If you want to go to Boston or NYC, both big cities, I'm close enough to both. Also, winter is my favorite season, I like the cold, so I like the fairly short summers.I can appreciate people not wanting to live here, but there's nowhere else I'd like to live more (but probably places I could learn to like)
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LadyMacBeth
wrote on March 10, 2010 @ 4:29 AM
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We traveled a bit right out of college. It was the perfect timing to drive home the idea that not everyone does anything the same way and you have to be careful about thinking there's only one way to live.That being said, my extended family is nearly all gone now and the older I get the more I feel a need to be surrounded by people who have known me for a long time. I'm settled now. RE - If we didn't think NE was superior to other places, those of us compelled to stay would be quite miserable, now wouldn't we?Those aren't frost heaves. They are badges of honor.In all reality, I've visited some quite lovely places, but the more I leave, the sooner I want to get back to NE. And by NE, I'm starting to mean north of MA.
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RoyalEagle0408
wrote on March 10, 2010 @ 4:32 AM
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@MN- Jersey beaches are key.I guess if you like cold, that's cool...@MN&KingDuncanKiller;-I guess my exposure (and therefore annoyance) is people being overly obsessed with Boston and not recognizing that there are other places. In the world.They just like to say they're from "New England" because they sound cooler or something. I just get super annoyed because people don't understand why I'd EVER want to leave. Forget moving to SD. They don't get why I'd want to move home to Philly, even though that's where I grew up. I could understand it if their attachment was to their childhood home, but no, it's to Boston/Massachusetts/hodgepodgeofsmalltownsknownasnewengland.
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LadyMacBeth
wrote on March 10, 2010 @ 4:49 AM
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@REI completely get why anyone would want to move home. There is no argument that trumps that. And since most of my exposure to Boston has been the weeks I spent at Joslin, I'm not particularly attached. I am a rabid fan of those hodgepodges of small towns, though. And the old houses with barns and outbuildings that are all connected so you never have to go outside. And the fact that a GPS is completely unnecessary since you can just give directions from one Dunkin Donuts to the next. And pancake breakfasts at the Mason Lodge every Sunday January through March! And horse pulling at the fair!Crap, your tirades appear to be catching.
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RoyalEagle0408
wrote on March 10, 2010 @ 4:53 AM
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@LMB- I do love Longwood. I work there and pass Joslin just about every day (when I take the bus in).Small towns are great. I will concede that NE has some great small towns. Boston does not fit into this category though. Sadly.As far as moving home- exactly. I eventually will probably (at least back east and not far from Philly and wawa- holla!!), but for now- I need to follow my dreams. Wow, right now I need to do something to erase that ridiculously cheesy and cliche statement I just made from my brain. I hope that doesn't catch.
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LadyMacBeth
wrote on March 10, 2010 @ 5:12 AM
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@RE I was always at Joslin in the summer. Very green and lush through there, at least back then. It kind of set an impossible standard for cities for me there after. Poor Austin didn't stand a chance.My husband likes San Diego a lot. He used to love getting sent there on business trips and he was there a lot as a kid as well. We've finally won him over to the dark side a few years ago, but until then he would have happily moved out to San Diego or a few other places out there.
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leelah
wrote on March 10, 2010 @ 5:25 AM
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Great timing on this article! I'm turning 40 in a few months, and I am considering a move from Chicago (where I've been since I was 23) to San Francisco. It seems like a bad time to take a risk since I'm a teacher with tenure at a really fantastic school, but it seems like the right thing to do.
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MondimNebel
wrote on March 10, 2010 @ 1:42 PM
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@RE: They tried to open some Wawas up here in CT but that just didn't work out so well- there are all these small buildings and stores that obviously used to be Wawas.
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RoyalEagle0408
wrote on March 10, 2010 @ 1:49 PM
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@MN- If they are of distinctive Wawa shape, I could ID them in a heartbeat.@LMacB- From what I hear, a lot of people like SD. I've never actually been, so would kind of be doing a blind faith move.But what more do I need than great weather, great science and great looking men?I know the last part for a fact because of my excessive research on the Navy SEALs and their training.
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MondimNebel
wrote on March 10, 2010 @ 2:08 PM
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@RE - I bet you could. There's nothing that looks quite like a Wawa. (But the new ones don't look quite the same)
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