30 Things Every Man Should Have By 30
Posted by: Wendy Atterberry
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12:30PM, Wednesday March 31st 2010
Last week after I wrote about 30 things every woman should quit doing by 30, our friends at Crushable wrote a great response post on 30 things every man should quit doing by 30. It suddenly occurred to me: we’ve been letting men off the hook for too long! We’ve had all these posts about what women should quit doing by 30 or should have or learn or know by 30, but what about the guys? So, without further ado, 30 things every man should have by 30, after the jump.
- A skin care regimen. C’mon guys, healthy complexions aren’t just for metrosexuals!
- A tasty signature dish he can whip up for a date.
- Respect for women as equals and not just as heads attached to boobs.
- At least four good pairs of shoes: dressy, business casual, casual, exercise.
- At least one friend who gives honest fashion advice.
- A tailored suit.
- A toolbox that includes: a hammer, screwdriver, wrench, nails, work gloves.
- Enough clean underwear (no holes!) to get him through a week between laundry sessions.
- Independence from his mama.
- The ability to ask for directions.
- A great road map when there’s no one to ask.
- A favorite cookbook.
- A decent set of pots and pans.
- An emergency kit in the trunk of his car.
- A hobby that does not include a television set or a 6-pack of beer.
- A trusted barber or hair stylist.
- A pair of jeans that makes his butt look good.
- Jumper cables.
- A driver’s license.
- Always enough toilet paper.
- Sheets that don’t scratch.
- A nightstand that doesn’t say “Handle with care” on the side.
- A smile he uses generously.
- At least one lamp that didn’t once belong in a dorm room.
- Enough confidence to approach someone he finds attractive.
- Enough sense not to use a cheesy pick-up line. (When in doubt, say “hello!”)
- A great razor.
- The beginning of a nest egg.
- A place where everyone knows his name.
- At least one sex move he’s received lots of positive feedback on.
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Lexington
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 12:42 PM
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A bed- not just mattresses on the floor!
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Sidv
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 12:44 PM
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Yes! A couch not a futon!
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cali_candy
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 12:49 PM
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Having just finished our taxes, I appreciate how #28 is very important (nest egg). I had to struggle with my husband to get him to put some money in his IRA. For some reason, he just doesn't see the value of putting away this money when we still don't own a house (or have anything saved up for a house) and he also has boat-loads of student loans to pay off. I'm not sure if this is a male thing or not...it could just be a financially-irresponsible thing. Since he's older than me, he's probably just going to mooch off of me when he retires and I'm still working!
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Riley
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 12:50 PM
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I think I bought enough TP to last me until I'm 30. A 30-pack of double-rolls lasts a while when you’re never home. I told the cashier I loved me some spicy Thai.
This list is easy.
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theattack
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 12:55 PM
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I think it's necessary to add that the week's supply of underwear has to be one to two pairs per day. You can't just stretch out two pairs to last the entire week. Eww.
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LV_Badger
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 1:08 PM
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I've had jumper cables in my car since I was 16, granted at the time I was driving a crappy old car that needed to be jumped almost everyday in the winter, but even though I've upgraded the car, I keep the cables handy.
I shave my head so there is no need for #16 as long as I always have my #27. I'm only 25 and have most of this list down...I've got to quit being an overachiever and enjoy my youth.
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Lary
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 1:19 PM
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Definitely the ability to ask for directions! I don't understand what is so wrong with that. Sometimes I'm in a store with my boyfriend and he's asking me where such and such is... My response: "Why don't you ask someone?" Usually we walk around looking for it or I "muster up" the courage to ask someone. :)
He does have Home Depot - EVERYONE knows him there.
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C.Munro
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 1:19 PM
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1. I actually just started using a mask once a week. Want to keep my youthful appearance intact.
4. You forgot flip-flops or other footwear appropriate for a day at the lake/beach.
16. It's hard to find a good one, and it seems like they always move away a couple of years after you get used to them.
18. No, I don't carry jumper cables because I don't give other people jump starts. It can wreak havoc on your car's electrical system. Instead, I replace my battery before it goes bad and don't leave my lights on.
25. To hell with that. I do not do the approaching. Ever. It's not my style.
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IEatCrayons
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 1:27 PM
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Hmm no " #( ) The ability to not be living paycheck to paycheck"? But that was on the What Women Should Quit by 30 list…
I know it’s what every man should have but here are some that should be here:
#( )Maturity when being rejected. Stop acting like a whiny baby when a woman rejects you. There are plenty of other women at the party or the coffee shop, hell IN THE WORLD for you to be wanted by. So after she politely tells you "Sorry, I'm involved", stop following that woman around the room for half the night saying "Well can't you have friends?" or even taking it back to fifth grade saying stuff like "Well fine, you aren't that cute anyway!"
#( )Manners. Learn some damn manners! By this age you should know better to not be blowing your nose in a restaurant at the table.
#( )Over texting and doing it badly. Stop texting for every little thing -pick up the phone and call sometimes. Also, please stop sending me text dat luk lyk dis! WTF?! Just because texting is quick doesn’t mean you lose your common grammar and spelling knowledge.
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Timeguy55
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 1:29 PM
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im really good in some areas and have a lot of work to do in others lol
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dani07
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 1:31 PM
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Umm how come a list where a woman needs a toolbox by 30 isn't included, I knew what a Philips head screwdriver was when I was 6, you shouldn't rely on your 30 year old bf to supply the tools.
I definitely agree with #20 What is up with that? Guys in their 20's never have toilet paper.
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40yrolddad
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 1:48 PM
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#s 10 & 11 are obsolete - when I'm not in the Lexus I have a portable Garmin & when I forget that I have a Droid (which is actually more precise/accurate believe it or not).
what about wine literacy? at least know what kind w/what food...
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Sakura Kawaii-hime
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 1:49 PM
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number 19.... drivers license what if he's blind. like my 2 older brothers. I think it better for them and the rest of the world and definitely safer if they don't drive.
*19. A Driver's License OR State ID*
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BedRocka
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 2:16 PM
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#31 buy your chic a toy friend.
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ClaudiaK
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 2:26 PM
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Well I can check a lot more of these off the list than the woman's. My boyfriend can too but a lot of that is because he lives with me. This list is defiantly easier on guys living with a partner than on the single guys. My dad lives alone and he's not too good at a lot of these things.
I don't know about number 29 if that place is a bar. I don't think it's healthy to be spending so much time at a bar that everyone knows your name especially if you are 30 and over.
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Singularity
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 3:01 PM
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OK, let's see which few I can check off this list...
3. I have been like that my entire life, thank you very much.
7. Toolbox and tools - well in my job I would be rather lost without them really.
8. Yes, I think so... just about.
9. Absolutely. I'm as independent as it gets.
10. I could, but have never in my life needed to. Yet.
14. Yes indeed, always be prepared for anything.
15. No problem. Lots of options there.
17. No idea what it looks like, as I have never really had the desire to look at it, actually.
18. See 14.
19. Of course.
23. Generously? Well I'm not sure I do it often enough to quite say that... I worry about creeping people out with it if I do it too often.
Oh great, that's about it. I wonder if that says bad things about the list, or bad things about my being an authentic 30+ male loser...
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stephoney22
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 3:20 PM
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Just gotta check on the suit and I think my 29 year and 9 month old man has got it down pat! I'd like to see "a healthy savings account" or "retirement fund" on there. Everything else about the list would conclude that the guy would have one of those, at least.
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missmolly
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 3:20 PM
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3. Respect for women as equals and not just as heads attached to boobs.
Uh that should be from birth, not by 30.
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rilkorten
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 3:40 PM
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Ladies and Gentlemen, my two cents...
1. Yeah, Mango loves 'em too. You should hear him raving about the fabulousness of exfoliating creams.
15. So...I still get to keep the hobby that involves the television and a 6-pack?
25. While I agree here I don't think women realize just how difficult that is. Consider the fact that I've NEVER been approached by a woman (though that's probably because I'm ugly as sin, but still!). You'd think if it was that easy then they'd be doing it too.
29. Why?
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Katsiebug
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 4:51 PM
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my bf has this list nailed !! at 25. I absolutely love his handy man appeal and that on family occasions he will show up in the same shirt and loafers as his dad, cute.
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IEatCrayons
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 5:08 PM
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#6YES! A tailored suit or at least a pair of dress pants and a nice button down shirt and tie are a must. A while ago I once invited an ex to a family holiday dinner and he showed up looking like an extra from The Wire-I was so pissed! I actually told him about two weeks before the dinner the type of restaurant we were going to and that the rest of us were dressing up. That somehow offended him so to spite me he dressed like he did. But he actually made himself stand out and look stupid with everybody else dressed nicely it was like "Did you not get the memo? Because everyone else did....."
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tk_2009
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 5:22 PM
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#31: perspective.
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Papa Geek
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 5:28 PM
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Or you can just star in the Twilight movies and ignore that list. :)
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haleylovesfrance
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 7:19 PM
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Enough confidence to approach someone he finds attractive.
Oh God this drives me crazy. Maybe I've read Jane Austen's books too many times or maybe I'm just too gutsy and expect the same thing in a guy, but seriously, you talk to me if you're interested, not stare at me for the entire semester and do nothing.
*twitches
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NomChompsky
wrote on March 31, 2010 @ 7:56 PM
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Number 3 should be on the list of "Things Every Man Should Have by the Age of 3."
There's no reason not to respect women as soon as you're capable of rational thought.
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