There’s one thing about relationships that you either learn early on, or you never learn, and that’s this: your partner can’t be responsible for your happiness, you have to be responsible for your happiness. Unfortunately, you’re still under the impression that your relationships should solve all your problems, so you flit from one long-term partnership to another, and become hopelessly embittered and disillusioned when, surprise surprise, you’re still a miserable person. You need to work on you, honey! Like … do a craft or something. Better yet, take up kick boxing. Something to work out all that agression. You just need to work on the inner you. Aside from that? The ice-queen thing works for you.