When you go to the coffee shop, you say "the usual" and the barista knows exactly what to make. Sure, you like to play it safe in a lot of ways, and because of it you have excellent credit and a stable job and monogamous, super committed relationships. You don't see the harm in keeping it simple in bed. You like to look in your partner's eyes and tell them how much you love them while you do it. That will never go out of style.