Best positions: Standing up; sitting on his face for oral “Standing positions work well,” says Los Angeles sex expert Dr. Patti Britton. “His longer body can hold her up — like, she’s facing him in his arms, legs wrapped around him, and he is positioned with a leg up on a chair or leaning against a wall. This is very common in the kama sutra.” Increase the intensity of this position by using the bathroom sink (taller than a regular table!) for sexual congress, suggests Catherine Toyooka, a San Francisco sex coach. “Sit on the edge of the sink counter,” she instructs. “Your man can enter you from this position and then alter the way he’s standing to get better leverage. You can slightly vary this position by crossing your legs around his back and having him scoop his hands under your tush for deeper penetration.” Also, have fun with oral: “Sit on his face, have him give you a pearl necklace while straddling you, give him some good old-fashioned Russian (between the boobs), or grant him a facial,” says Dr. Christine Milrod, a sex therapist in Los Angeles who also sees patients via Skype.