The Eternally Brokenhearted: He hasn't gotten over the chick who broke his heart and he holds what she did against every other woman he dates in subtle ways.
The Woman He Wants Pushing His Emotional Wheelchair: Someone who reinforces his anger at his ex by committing the same "sins" she did, that way he can punish her for his ex's actions. Unfortunately for both of them, he'll never be able to work through his anger completely with that kind of black-and-white attitude in which he's the sole victim.
His Wheelchair Needs: To have closure with the woman who "wronged him," yes, but not necessarily through confrontation. Rather, he needs to look at the demise of the relationship objectively so he's forced to acknowledge his role and can move forward in a new relationship with no baggage.
The Woman He Wants Pushing His Emotional Wheelchair: Someone who reinforces his anger at his ex by committing the same "sins" she did, that way he can punish her for his ex's actions. Unfortunately for both of them, he'll never be able to work through his anger completely with that kind of black-and-white attitude in which he's the sole victim.
His Wheelchair Needs: To have closure with the woman who "wronged him," yes, but not necessarily through confrontation. Rather, he needs to look at the demise of the relationship objectively so he's forced to acknowledge his role and can move forward in a new relationship with no baggage.
