Wherever there's a need, there's an eBook out there somewhere to fulfill it. Winona alerted me to the existence of Taoist Foreplay, a book which teaches how to use Love Meridians and Pressure Points to get the action going. Somehow, this also relates to the Chinese Zodiac. I have no idea what Love Meridians are or what they have to do with the Chinese Zodiac, but I see there is a chapter called "Whole Body Love-Shiatsu," so I'm in!
But seriously, there are host of exploratory, sexual how-tos on Amazon. Just found one called Modern Sex Magick: Secrets of Erotic Spirituality. Sounds heavy.