So you just started dating a fella and the pesky holiday season is fast approaching. Do you skip the gift altogether and risk him deeming you a cheap curmudgeon lady? Or do you go all out and scare the ever-living the crap out of him? I say ... neither. Get him a something that shows you care, but not too much. After all, you just started dating so you aren't ready to invest too much emotionally or financially. Click through for gift ideas for the dude you just started dating.