But naturally, lavender marriages aren't limited to Hollywood. “These marriages are a centuries old practice: Richard the LionHeart, King Edward II, Oscar Wilde and on and on,” says Jacobson. Getting sucked into Wikipedia and websites with bad clip art, one quickly learns that lavender marriages cross borders of fame. This is perhaps most strangely exemplified by famous anti porn feminist Andrea Dworkin, a lesbian, who married gay man and activist, John Stoltenberg. Who knew?