Truth: Because he’s older, he’s undoubtedly making more than most guys your age. But consider this: his bigger paycheck is very likely going toward alimony payments, child support, private school tuition, college funds, and the expenses for two households. And if he’s smart he’s stashing some away for his impending nursing home bills. Going out on dates? You can pretty much forget about it. He's broke by the time he pays out all of his expenses.