Having fulfilling kinky sex with your partner can be a great way to bond as a couple and build trust with each other about exploring any sexual fantasy. If you are playing bottom, also be aware you just might find yourself in sub-space, a mental state of euphoria that comes from playing with BDSM. Regardless, after that toe has been dipped into kinky waters, don’t forget after-care.
Debrief and talk about what just happened. Did you enjoy it? Was there something that didn't turn you or your partner on? Keep the communication going so that next time you can push the envelope even further … ya know, if you're into that.
