Ami had a friend in college who taught her the acronym PAFU, which stands for People Are Fucked Up. At the time, she thought it was funny. More than 15 years later, she's adopted it as her life motto. It's the truth, people can be major assholes. Sometimes they don't mean to be -- and sometimes they do -- but it's a cold, hard fact that there's absolutely nothing you can do about other people's fucked-up-ed-ness, except have a solid coping strategy for how to let their crap roll like water off a duck's back. (Thank you, Jinx Monsoon). It 'tis what it 'tis. Encountering assholes is part of the human condition. Here's how to deal...