When you’re in a relationship — and have been for quite some time — you and your love bird are bound to have gone on all the usual dates many, many times over. So for Valentine’s Day this year, don’t visit the restaurant the two of you eat at on a regular night and order the usual. We gathered romantic spots from around the country, along with some ideas that’ll work wherever you live, to help you plan a memorable day (and night) together. Because even though there’s a lot of emphasis on buying presents that are pink, red, and covered in hearts and roses, Valentine’s Day is about showing how much you appreciate your honey. Spend the day enjoying each other’s company and think of the rest as trimmings.