The Perfectionist: This classic "type A" works out 12 days a week, is an executive, has a wardrobe to die for, drives a BMW, and has the most amazing penthouse apartment ... only she lives there alone. Why? Well, she says it's because she has high standards, but really it's because she's built a fortress of perfection around her and she's too afraid to let a dude swim across the moat. Translation: she can't be vulnerable.
The Guy She Wants Pushing Her Emotional Wheelchair: Someone who doesn't exist because no one she meets is ever good enough for her. She's holding out for the perfect man. So if you've met him, please let her know ASAP.
Her Wheelchair Needs: Life is not perfect, people are not perfect, love is not perfect. It's all messy. She needs to learn to tolerate her own shortcomings in order to be able to tolerate them in another person.