The Unstable: This lady lets her emotions and impulses run her life, but not in a "free-spirited" kind of a way, more in a "crazy" kind of way. She can't hold down a job, a residence, a friendship, a relationship, or even a mood. She is completely unpredictable. One minute everything is fine and the next she's chasing you around the apartment with a butter knife. Oftentimes, this behavior is due to untreated or undiagnosed mental illness.
The Guy She Wants Pushing Her Emotional Wheelchair: Someone who will engage in and indulge her insanity, not challenge it. A guy who will save her from herself, be her rock (aka a substitute therapist).
Her Wheelchair Needs: There's no shame in finding a real therapist who's not her boyfriend. Whether she's suffering from a clinical disorder or she's just a highly sensitive soul, she needs professional help. The sooner she acknowledges this and realizes she doesn't have to live this way, the sooner she'll be able to walk again.