10 Things Joan Holloway Harris Would Say About Dating
5. "I'm not a solution to your problems. I'm another problem."
Translation: Guess what? His life isn't magically going to become perfect with a girlfriend, wife, mistress, or hookup. And if he thinks it will, you need to run away. NOW.
Logic: The flip side is true for men as well (although they have less pressure on them from the Wedding Industrial Complex): it may feel like another person can make you happy. Nope! The only person who can make you happy is yourself.