Translation: Sometimes it's not him/them, it's you.
Logic: Sometimes the best thing you can do for yourself (and create good dating karma!) is take yourself out of the dating pool and, to put it bluntly, fix your shit. Your anxiety attacks? Your food issues? Your abusive father who gave you an inability to be attracted to a man who doesn't act like a jerk? Deal with your own problems first and then try to get in a relationship. Dating will be a lot more successful — and dare I say fun — when you're not lugging around baggage.