Tag Archives: love advice

Dear Wendy: “I Was Invited To My Ex’s Wedding, But I Don’t Want To Go”

Wendy AtterberryJanuary 14, 2012 //
Toxic Friendships
15 toxic friends you need to dump ASAP. Read More »
S**t Guys Say
The shit guys say to women -- that they wouldn't say to each other. Read More »
Dear Wendy...
"My boyfriend is addicted to singles chat sites." Read More »

Adam, a good friend of mine, who also happens to be an ex-boyfriend, has invited me to his upcoming wedding, but I have no desire whatsoever to go. Adam and I dated about five years ago and broke up because I was 19 and not ready for the type of relationship that he was looking for. We remained close friends, and shortly after, he started dating Debbie, his now fiancée. For a while, we all got along fine. Debbie knew Adam and I were friends, but I only saw her a handful of times over the next couple years while I saw Adam on an almost weekly basis. At first, she was never anything but friendly, but after a while, things got ugly: she sent passive aggressive messages on Myspace and wrote nasty blog posts about me, calling me a whore and a drug addict, and accusing me of trying to steal her fiancé, among other hateful things. I was upset, and confronted Adam, but he took her side and we didn’t speak for three years. Keep reading »

Hot Links: Panda Porn! Plus Why No One Wants To Follow You On Twitter!

Amelia McDonell-ParryJanuary 10, 2012 //
  • What’s black and white and causes Jessica to “squee”? Pandas! Here are 30 photos of the adorable bear doing its panda thing. [theBERRY]
  • Got a Twitter account? Wonder why you rarely get any new followers? Perhaps one or more of these 10 things is to blame. [College Candy]
  • Experts weigh in on how a guy should properly dump his girlfriend. Do you agree? [Ask Men] Keep reading »

5 Ways To Change Your Romantic Type

Leonora EpsteinJanuary 8, 2012 //
Do Not Date These Guys
12 guys you shouldn't date in 2011. Read More »
Guys To Date
Here are 18 guys you should give a shot in 2012. Read More »
New Year, New You
Everything you need to kick 2012 off right. Read More »

When it comes to men, I have a type. Physically, he’s tall and lean. He’s also the soft-spoken intellectual and creative type. And more often than not, he’s emotionally unavailable and self-absorbed. And yet, I date him over and over again, like a broken record stuck on one false note.

This might be why there’s an entire dating industry geared toward women. And as much as you might want to blame it on “Sex and the City,” the truth of the matter is that many women, myself included, don’t always go for the right type of guy. You may now cue the latest romantic comedy that you don’t want to believe is loosely based on your life. But in honor of New Year, New You Month, it’s time for a change Keep reading »

The Most Unintentionally Hilarious Advice Question Ever (Farts Involved)

Julie GersteinJanuary 6, 2012 //
Fart Auction
An open letter to the woman who's selling her gas on eBay. Read More »
Pooping At Work
bathroom stall photo
Poop happens. We want to know if you poop at work. Read More »
Pooping Lessons
Pooping lessons for adults. 8 Photos »

Meet “So Incredibly Humiliated,” a woman whose relationship threatens to collapse on its shaky foundations thanks to the most vile and villainous transgression of them all: farting. Yes, that’s right, “So Incredibly Humiliated” wrote Slate advice columnist “Dear Prudence” because it seems she might have accidentally farted a couple of times in front of her boyfriend  – in her sleep! — and now she’s afraid he may never speak to her again. Read on… Keep reading »

Dear Wendy: “I’m Ostracized For Keeping My Maiden Name”

Wendy AtterberryJanuary 6, 2012 //

My husband and I have been married a little under a year and we’re starting to actually feel married. However, in all of the adjustments I’ve made, there’s still one giving me a hard time: telling people that I’ve kept my maiden name. It’s a decision I made long before I met my husband; we discussed it at length before we even got engaged, and now he and our immediate friends and families are completely, 100% comfortable with it. Keep reading »

The Dos & Don’ts Of Emailing Online Dating Matches

Wendy AtterberryDecember 31, 2011 //
Types To Avoid
There are a lot of great guy online -- just not these five types. Read More »
Your Profile Photo
The dos and don'ts of the all-important online dating profile pic. Read More »
Online Dating Lies
The top 10 white lies people tell on their profiles. Read More »

When a friend of mine who’s dipping her toe back into the world of online dating recently asked for three quick rules to remember when emailing potential matches, it occurred to me that if she needed a bit of a refresher course, some of you probably do too. After all, as convenient as it is, email is rife with opportunities to shoot yourself in the foot and hurt your shot at making a real connection. So after the jump, eight dos and don’ts to remember when emailing a potential online dating match. Keep reading »

Dating Don’ts: 5 Online Dating Types To Avoid

Judy McGuireDecember 30, 2011 //
Online Dating Lies
The top 10 white lies people tell on their profiles. Read More »
Your Profile Photo
The dos and don'ts of the all-important online dating profile pic. Read More »
How NOT To Kiss
The worst smooches ever. Read More »

Your passive-aggressive aunt bought you a Match.com subscription for Christmas. While your first impulse was to hit her with a brick, you’ve always been curious about online dating. “What the heck?” you figure. “I’ll write an ad and take a look around.” But when you’re on your own in virtual reality, the search for computer-generated love can be daunting. Here are the top online dating types to avoid. Keep reading »

Dating Don’ts: How NOT To Kiss

Judy McGuireDecember 26, 2011 //
Your Profile Photo
The dos and don'ts of the all-important online dating profile pic. Read More »
22 Things About Dating
We wish we knew these 22 things about dating when we were 22. Read More »
Online Dating
John DeVore thinks it's a waste of time. Do you? Read More »

Locking lips. Making out. Smooching. Kissing. It sounds so pleasant and easy, yet do a little research and you’ll soon discover that while everyone may be doing it, few are doing it well. For your edification, I have rounded up the different varieties of bad kissers and broken them down by the traits they share with members of the animal kingdom.

Keep reading »

Dear Wendy: “He Got Us Both Pregnant At The Same Time”

Wendy AtterberryDecember 23, 2011 //
No NYE Date?
"He still hasn't made New Year's Eve plans with me..." Read More »
Bad Baby Daddy
"My baby daddy isn't supporting our child." Read More »
Dear Wendy
"I want to dump my parents." Read More »

I’m four months pregnant and split with my boyfriend of one year a week ago. He has a son with someone who he was “banging” before me, though they never had a relationship. I got used to him having a kid and things were okay. When he got used to the idea that we were having a baby he was happy because he said it was with “someone he loved a lot.”After we broke up he kept trying to talk to me but I kept ignoring him til one night he begged me to talk to him so I gave in and went to see him. He told me how much he wanted us to be together for the baby and I was considering giving it a try, but then he said, “I have to tell you something,” and he told me his baby mama might be pregnant for him again. He said he didn’t know how it happened — he was soo dang drunk he doesn’t remember anything happening. We were broken during that time and I guess he sorta thinks if he doesn’t remember what he did and that we were split up it shouldn’t matter.

I love him a lot and I want us to be together for our baby but this situation just seems so effed up. He said he wants to be with me and our baby and that he doesn’t want her to have another kid for him. He also begged me if we could still just try and be together, but I can’t figure out what to do but hope she’s lying. She had their first kid to trap him but he doesn’t want to be with her at all. I need help. This is tearing me apart. — Confused Baby Mama

Keep reading »

The Dos & Don’ts For Your Online Dating Profile Photo

Julie GersteinDecember 22, 2011 //
Online Dating
John DeVore thinks it's a waste of time. Do you? Read More »
Technology And Dating
Technology and dating dos and don'ts. Read More »
Dating Good Guys
boyfriend photo
Not every woman wants to date an a-hole. Read More »

If we’re to believe the marketing geniuses at Match.com, one in five couples now meets online. We’ve been looking, and dang, have we seen some messed up profile pictures. Listen, it’s sad but true, but your online dating profile pic can make the difference between somebody asking you out or moving right along. We’re superficial, we know these things and are guilty of passing on perfectly nice guys because they looked stanky in their pics. As such, we’ve come up with a simple list of dos and don’ts for both men and women to follow when selecting their all-important profile images. These suggestions have been culled with the help of our picky dude friends who have looked at countless online profiles, too, so they know what they’re talking about.

Keep reading »

  1. < BACK
  2. 1
  3. ...
  4. 4
  5. 5
  6. 6
  7. 7
  8. 8
  9. 9
  10. ...
  11. NEXT >
  12. ...
  13. »